It's just so hard. The rollercoaster and the guilt.
2026-06-20 21:15:19
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Kathy K. 🎤🎼 :
I’m a work in progress in therapy for this.
2026-06-21 05:44:48
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Elaina 🌸🫧 :
I’m 32 I still put their feelings first
2026-06-20 21:45:03
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jess :
Went no contact in November. Holding strong!!
2026-06-20 21:23:43
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HachitheShiba :
This is so true with my mother. She makes me feel responsible for her like I need to do everything for her and honestly, I have created my own life, but she puts that guilt on me every single day. Because of her poor life choices, she makes me responsible.
2026-06-20 21:57:24
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Mandysaurous77 :
Legit took until my mid thirties to get a handle on this.
2026-06-20 23:05:19
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i.am.nobody039 :
I was so excited to have found your book at the bookstore in Mauritius 🇲🇺 , i can't wait to read it.
2026-06-20 23:08:28
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Edwina Johnston :
Unfelt anger creates enmeshment
2026-06-21 06:40:07
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Kristy 🌻☀️🌞 :
She tells me “you are all I have”More of this please. It’s so toxic I’m 50 ✨🙏🏻😩😭
2026-06-21 03:34:45
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The Frizz Girls :
A tornado touchdown near my mom’s house this week…I haven’t even reached out to check on her. I don’t have the headspace or bandwidth.
2026-06-21 04:31:07
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02aaa :
Hi girly I didnt need this on à Saturday afternoon. Thanks for the reflection I’m going to à dark room to cry silently to myself.
2026-06-21 00:59:03
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hellodarkness1983🧿 :
My mother literally said to me, when i tried to keep my new relationship separate from her, you can’t have it both ways. Meaning i couldn’t have a close relationship with her and also have autonomy. That messed me up for a long time.
2026-06-20 23:31:30
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Maureen Ponderosa :
The answer I always get “well im your mother!”
2026-06-21 01:42:13
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k1wigal :
Currently I’m making him work out his cellphone. My dad has blindly chosen to ignore technology and made it my problem. I live 8 hours away. He needs to problem solve this one. This is the real first time I’m really digging in the boundaries. The emotional manipulation is getting old though
2026-06-20 22:36:47
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LIYU :
Always grateful for your posts. Always helpful. Is there a term for this? Thank you
2026-06-21 09:53:59
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danasdigs :
I went no contact last year, I'm now at peace & joy
2026-06-21 01:07:04
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A.Honey :
Thank you for continuing to teach what healthy looks like. As someone who has never seen it in practice this is helping me heal.
2026-06-20 21:37:17
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BexOh :
I’ve gone no contact but it still gets me every once in a while where I feel bad about it
2026-06-20 22:34:33
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Modern Mom Media :
Fhewww yes. I was so NERVOUS when that car would roll in the drive way. I still have that feeling today when my husband pulls up. Like I haven’t done enough, I need to be up and working…. 😅
2026-06-20 21:48:50
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grandematchawithoatmilk :
My hubby and his mother
2026-06-20 22:46:54
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CJ :
ive been actively working on this for so long now and im still frustrated that I cant feel basic things around them like hunger or what I want. Exhausted. I have to physically remove myself somehow.
2026-06-20 23:02:27
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lifeunscripted08 :
This ugh
2026-06-21 00:49:44
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CP :
Perfect timing.
2026-06-20 22:44:43
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scalbeaandpi_ :
Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
2026-06-20 21:16:44
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