@the_coach_scott: What it's like to be in a toxic relationship and a trauma bond

Scott | Divorce Recovery Coach
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Saturday 20 June 2026 21:35:36 GMT
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thornton.hannahs.mom
Amy :
I’m living this now- he thinks I’m a horrible person now because I am ready to leave
2026-06-21 04:41:25
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yorkiemomx4
Steph with an S 🐚🏖️☀️🌊👙❌ :
That’s a great analogy
2026-06-20 22:54:47
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braziliandori
BrazilianDori :
I thought that if I kept praying and praying God was going to do a miracle. The thing is, people have to make their own choices. I have realized now the miracle was me leaving with my kids. It still so hard bc is it what I wanted to go through but is necessary!
2026-06-21 15:47:01
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backwdsbarbie
BackWoodsBarbie :
Been there done that and absolutely NOOOOOOO more!!
2026-06-20 21:52:20
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niniofsix
Robin :
It took me 26 years to realize he was never gonna fill my cup 😭 and he just moved on with someone else before the papers were signed 😭 but i am much happier now
2026-06-21 14:24:24
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tracya375
tracyc375❌ :
Yes
2026-06-21 11:31:10
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dancingnurse89
Just.Me.Unapologetically 💋 :
What if they both feel like they are pouring into the other.
2026-06-20 22:04:46
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mikecross826
mikecross826 :
100 well explained, took me almost 3 years to figure that out
2026-06-20 21:41:44
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sweetxchaos
SweetXChaos :
I’m done. It took me a very long time to accept what I was seeing, but I knew that eventually his actions would tell the story better than I ever could.
2026-06-21 02:07:43
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normaoyster
Norma oyster :
That is very true Scott been there done it and I got out
2026-06-21 07:01:56
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ree671
ReeRee671 :
and im over here still pouring and trying to find every which way to be understanding🤦‍♀️
2026-06-21 07:09:46
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kim616445
Kim :
I watched your live, and your honesty is so refreshing. We all need to hear the truth even if we already know.
2026-06-21 14:56:07
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shatteredbutsparkly
shatteredbutsparkly :
That is the best explanation. Thank you
2026-06-21 04:39:28
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chantelleparent
Chantelle 🇨🇦 :
💯 it’s totally exhausting! Thank you for these truth words.
2026-06-21 03:37:02
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majelkeairns
majel keairns :
Been there.
2026-06-21 01:59:48
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pquenatraviesa
Healing with Joann Marie :
I used to be the giver and it was exhausting. Since I chose myself I turned to be the villain of the story.
2026-06-21 12:46:18
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teresalivingston44
Mrs T :
I've been doing that my owe life
2026-06-21 01:20:49
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mthurkettle144
MSM1414 :
Yes, then they’re done that actually twice now over it
2026-06-21 02:40:47
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kathy.johnson404
Kathy Johnson :
@🥰
2026-06-21 15:12:44
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andreastrbova
Muchotravka :
Some open hands to share their light Some only take what feels just right We’re not all one, we shift and bend But balance is what makes it mend There’s the one who gives till they have nothing left Thinking kindness means putting self beneath the rest And there’s the one who takes and never says a word Believing they deserve all they have heard There are givers, there are takers One fills the cup, one drains the maker Give what you can, but keep your part That’s how you guard your peace and heart When blame comes round and calls your name It’s just their story, not your fame Their words are mirrors, not your truth Hold your boundaries, stay true to you Let kindness flow both ways around That’s where true happiness is found There are givers, there are takers One fills the cup, one drains the maker Give what you can, but keep your part That’s how you guard your peace and heartBe wise, be kind, and stand up tall Give freely — but never give your all.
2026-06-20 21:54:20
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shannonhitt
Shannon Hitt :
I have been living this for a few years now. Due to his choices I was left with no options to file a restraining order. He is pushing for me to drop the order but it’s not that simple. I’m still not sure if it’s safe to do so. What he doesn’t comprehend that he’s burned all the bridges, my patience, my positivity, my trust, and most importantly I do not feel safe. But is straight manipulation for me to just drop it, to just move past it all like it didn’t happen. Blaming me for placing a boundary and enforcing it! I’m just blown away with his level of delusion 😳
2026-06-21 13:08:47
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