I’m living this now- he thinks I’m a horrible person now because I am ready to leave
2026-06-21 04:41:25
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Steph with an S 🐚🏖️☀️🌊👙❌ :
That’s a great analogy
2026-06-20 22:54:47
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BrazilianDori :
I thought that if I kept praying and praying God was going to do a miracle. The thing is, people have to make their own choices. I have realized now the miracle was me leaving with my kids. It still so hard bc is it what I wanted to go through but is necessary!
2026-06-21 15:47:01
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BackWoodsBarbie :
Been there done that and absolutely NOOOOOOO more!!
2026-06-20 21:52:20
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Robin :
It took me 26 years to realize he was never gonna fill my cup 😭 and he just moved on with someone else before the papers were signed 😭 but i am much happier now
2026-06-21 14:24:24
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tracyc375❌ :
Yes
2026-06-21 11:31:10
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Just.Me.Unapologetically 💋 :
What if they both feel like they are pouring into the other.
2026-06-20 22:04:46
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mikecross826 :
100 well explained, took me almost 3 years to figure that out
2026-06-20 21:41:44
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SweetXChaos :
I’m done. It took me a very long time to accept what I was seeing, but I knew that eventually his actions would tell the story better than I ever could.
2026-06-21 02:07:43
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Norma oyster :
That is very true Scott been there done it and I got out
2026-06-21 07:01:56
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ReeRee671 :
and im over here still pouring and trying to find every which way to be understanding🤦♀️
2026-06-21 07:09:46
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Kim :
I watched your live, and your honesty is so refreshing. We all need to hear the truth even if we already know.
2026-06-21 14:56:07
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shatteredbutsparkly :
That is the best explanation. Thank you
2026-06-21 04:39:28
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Chantelle 🇨🇦 :
💯 it’s totally exhausting! Thank you for these truth words.
2026-06-21 03:37:02
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majel keairns :
Been there.
2026-06-21 01:59:48
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Healing with Joann Marie :
I used to be the giver and it was exhausting. Since I chose myself I turned to be the villain of the story.
2026-06-21 12:46:18
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Mrs T :
I've been doing that my owe life
2026-06-21 01:20:49
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MSM1414 :
Yes, then they’re done that actually twice now over it
2026-06-21 02:40:47
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Kathy Johnson :
@🥰
2026-06-21 15:12:44
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Muchotravka :
Some open hands to share their light
Some only take what feels just right
We’re not all one, we shift and bend
But balance is what makes it mend
There’s the one who gives till they have nothing left
Thinking kindness means putting self beneath the rest
And there’s the one who takes and never says a word
Believing they deserve all they have heard
There are givers, there are takers
One fills the cup, one drains the maker
Give what you can, but keep your part
That’s how you guard your peace and heart
When blame comes round and calls your name
It’s just their story, not your fame
Their words are mirrors, not your truth
Hold your boundaries, stay true to you
Let kindness flow both ways around
That’s where true happiness is found
There are givers, there are takers
One fills the cup, one drains the maker
Give what you can, but keep your part
That’s how you guard your peace and heartBe wise, be kind, and stand up tall
Give freely — but never give your all.
2026-06-20 21:54:20
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Shannon Hitt :
I have been living this for a few years now. Due to his choices I was left with no options to file a restraining order. He is pushing for me to drop the order but it’s not that simple. I’m still not sure if it’s safe to do so. What he doesn’t comprehend that he’s burned all the bridges, my patience, my positivity, my trust, and most importantly I do not feel safe. But is straight manipulation for me to just drop it, to just move past it all like it didn’t happen. Blaming me for placing a boundary and enforcing it! I’m just blown away with his level of delusion 😳
2026-06-21 13:08:47
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