Alllleeeennnn
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mbalenhlenhlapo15 :
I blocked him today
2026-08-17 13:54:12
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Elle :
You just get tired that you don’t even want to talk anymore
2026-06-21 01:55:49
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Shan :
Day 16 of silence here and no word from him.
2026-06-20 23:47:07
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uhnot22 :
As an avoidant I’m taking this advice thank you.
2026-06-20 23:23:12
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Mae Mae :
I said what I needed to say and now I’m okay with the silence. I think that we are always told to not say anything when it comes to a avoidant, but I think sometimes we need to say things for us not for them to be able to move forward.
2026-06-21 03:32:16
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Malika Rita Palmer :
I was abt to text him. thx for this! day 2 of no texting/calling....let's go!!!! 💯💯💯
2026-08-05 09:44:26
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AnonymissUzer :
Ive been silent for 25 days, still no word from her
2026-06-21 04:21:09
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Walkerwelch :
Not with an avoidant: they just accuse you of the silent treatment
2026-06-21 15:44:30
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🐬MichellePaddlesFlorida🐬 :
WHY is it the HARDEST thing on earth to do?!?!
2026-06-21 19:15:33
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Shaun :
Comment on this please. My bf has always said he hates uncertainty. He won’t take action because if he can’t have a guaranteed outcome, he won’t move. When I was in chaser position, it gave him certainty. I was predictable. His hot/cold gave me anxiety. When I stopped initiating, HE got uncertainty and I got his attention. Seems to clear now. I kept asking for clarity, protesting, using a million words to explain. All he saw was that I was, just waiting. Now I don’t initiate at all. I let go of the outcome. I am so busy building my life outside of him, he just wants a piece of it. I don’t announce my plans. He can ask to see me and sometimes I’m busy. And I don’t overexplain either, not available at that time. You’re so right about the silence but it was really hard. Now that I see the dance, I can’t unsee it.
2026-06-21 13:26:26
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queenvee805 :
What about when he reaches out and u ignore his text or calls?
2026-07-01 07:17:36
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Windows :
Quick question… By silence, do you mean even if they try to break the ice and talk to me, I should still be quiet? Or you mean that I should stop carrying our relationship by myself and just say and do less. (No fixing, no initiating, etc)
2026-06-23 09:46:11
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pain.into.pomegranates :
I been reaching out consistently for the past 2 weeks and still no response, am I cooked?
2026-07-22 22:32:56
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user2151761180249 :
guys keeping things inside causes autoimmune diseases...please talk and talk everything out.rather look desperate than be sick.
2026-08-15 15:44:10
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Eva :
I’m finally being silent, it’s so hard💔
2026-06-25 03:01:32
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Lesedi :
I wish you said this earlier
2026-07-03 16:49:10
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Anami62 :
lol, he has sat with the silence for 11 months. I think he is good. 😂
2026-06-21 03:32:47
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Stephan :
Trying this now
2026-07-24 22:54:59
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MsPayton2U :
I don't want any of that... DONE ✅
2026-06-21 20:38:18
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Barbie :
We lived together.. he hasn’t reached out just breadcrumbs in over 3 months. I believe he has killed me off in his heart 🖤
2026-06-23 01:52:31
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kaitlyn 🪩 :
Right on time!!! Thank u sir 🙂↕️
2026-06-21 14:18:52
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_ :
Yes, I’ve finally let go. Enough is enough
2026-06-24 04:10:22
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HeyItsSabs :
I’m really confused because my husband left 2 1/2 months ago in the beginning, I pursued obviously because it was out of nowhere but then I gave him space and it took him three weeks to reach out to me that he wanted to come and get a few things and talk and then the day before we spoke, he blocked me and all my friends on social media. I’m not even on Instagram. I was taking an Instagram break. And then our conversation was basically him saying that he doesn’t wanna try. He doesn’t wanna give me false hope but he’s gonna think about the conversation that we had in process at all. None of it makes sense.
2026-06-22 02:23:01
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Tabby :
I did this yesterday after a disagreement and he mentioned to me I took a long time to respond and was then reaching out to me more.
2026-06-22 19:34:59
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Xochi 💕✨ :
I feel like they don’t care so
2026-06-21 03:06:46
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