@josephoster44: Your child won't listen? The issue is obedience, not hearing. Learn three steps—stop repeating, attach a consequence, and be consistent. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. #fyp #parentingtips #parenting #christianparenting #correction
I struggle with this because I dont want be mean to them.
2026-06-22 13:46:59
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It’s me. I’m the problem 😩😩 I freaking suck at follow through cause I don’t want to but I need to and I know it
2026-06-22 02:52:06
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THANK YOU SO MUCH
2026-06-26 06:23:09
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I struggle with WHAT consequence should I use@
2026-06-21 04:22:22
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Does not work with all kids My son is 15 years old I took everything for him phone game TV And he hasn’t had them in months Still doesn’t listen
2026-06-21 18:07:10
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I need consequence ideas because losing electronics doesn’t work 😮💨
2026-06-22 16:38:40
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and THEY WILL test how tight you hold the line....they will see how far they can go until you give up and give in. Hold the line!!!
2026-06-21 03:08:18
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What about with a 2 & 3 year old??
2026-06-21 13:02:33
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Yes. When we don’t follow through they consider us to be liars because we didn’t follow through.
2026-06-22 19:07:59
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Thank u sir for sharing sir.I needed that
2026-06-21 22:48:06
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im so greatful for my partner to be this father for my sons
2026-06-22 15:35:56
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Time out works great. People don’t understand how it works. They say “it never worked for my kid”. It absolutely works if you enforce it. It just might take years before a warning of time out causes them to stop and choose more wisely. That’s not the primary goal. The goal initially is for them to connect choice to consequence.
2026-06-25 20:57:52
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It's only enforced when I'm around... when I work it's different and then I feel like they don't listen to me.. it's such a struggle
2026-06-23 01:18:47
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Say what you mean, and mean what you say.
2026-06-21 14:10:35
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I wish my daughter would listen to this! I told her the same thing! I told her her children do not listen to her . My grand children listen to me . I start counting to 3 with my 5 yr old grand child . By 2 he started listening to me because he knew by the time I get to 3 he better obey . He does . He knows I will give him time out in his room .
2026-06-21 17:23:47
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Amen. Consistency is key.
2026-06-20 23:59:12
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Be consistent every single time
2026-06-26 07:40:16
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I do believe a clear warning is appropriate. At least give them one chance to process and think about their choice.
2026-06-25 20:58:46
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consistency teaches, inconsistency confuses💯💯💯
2026-06-22 02:55:06
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Thank you sir! I think the whole USA needs to hear.
2026-06-22 02:21:03
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I needed to hear this tonight! Thank you
2026-06-23 02:26:01
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Even with an 8 yr old ? 😳 My son is like that and then when ask him to do something simple like pick up toys in his room he sits there and negotiate or just won’t do it
2026-06-22 00:39:10
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You are so right if more parents would tell them one time and stand by what they say things would be different.
2026-06-21 13:44:33
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but it doesn't work with all kids
2026-06-20 22:53:05
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I am retired from teaching, and I would say something I expected only once. You look them in the eye (on their level ) and in a normal voice, give them your request.
2026-06-21 03:26:50
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