thesydneyfinn
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Camsplaining :
as a previous avoidant, I avoided dating at all until I got my shit together lol, like idk why people don't understand that's an option
2026-06-21 16:35:52
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r :
tingle of apathy is so real 😭
2026-06-21 18:46:22
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Bre J✨⭐️🌟💫 :
Me avoiding ur advice
2026-06-22 23:33:33
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BoraBora :
I did this today. told myself to shut up😂😂😂
2026-06-21 05:24:32
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virgosunsagmoon :
I GET NAUSEOUS I CAN’T HELP IT
2026-06-27 20:16:59
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Flossyjrackz :
I legit get claustrophobic
2026-07-17 18:57:33
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Lefttoenail :
I already did it, I’ve completely went ghost.
2026-06-21 14:01:03
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1atten :
For me the more I convince myself to stay the worse it gets to the point I have to get away.
2026-06-21 12:19:31
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spam :
for me its a pit of anxiety un the stomach rather than apathy
2026-06-22 05:10:11
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Rudy :
When I get a flare up it’s all I think about until I self sabotage. The feelings are so overwhelming and I feel claustrophobic and like I need to crawl out of my skin and it goes away as soon as I drop the person
2026-08-04 09:07:31
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⦻𝕊𝕝𝕖𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣𝕞𝕒'𝕒𝕞⦻ :
I've tried this and cried and almost threw up.
2026-06-24 10:35:30
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Mary M :
I don’t get apathy. I get the ick.
2026-08-08 19:56:16
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☀️ :
I pulled it already…I’ll try again next time
2026-06-21 14:41:05
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⋆˚࿔ 𝐒𝐚𝐫𝐚ᰔᩚ˚ :
Easier said than done
2026-07-12 13:29:54
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love🪬 :
I tried it but turns out she’s more avoidant than me
2026-06-21 06:34:46
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user6144412580724 :
This also applies to friendships. I’m working on it
2026-06-21 05:23:49
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Sarah :
Major ice queen here. I am now in a successful relationship for 6 months because of your videos. I am working on everything still and just spiralled last night because of some silence. Pushed myself to call (which is hard for me to do) and everything was perfectly normal. Still learning I have to put in the same effort as him and not just rely on him to do it all. He seemed so happy I called and we kept talking about all our future plans. Working on saying the “I love you” first since I also only say it back to him after he says it, and I know that also means something to him. Thank you for all you’ve done for me!
2026-06-21 16:20:52
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bah :
but I get repulsed/annoyed for no reason before I get the apathy
2026-06-23 16:42:49
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p0larpops :
Very very true!! I think the most difficult part is walking that fine line between “am I just being avoidant” or “is this genuinely shitty behavior and I should walk away?” Bc I’ve been in relationships where I got scared and threw in the towel too early, but I’ve also been in relationships where I tolerated FARRRR too much nonsense bc I kept gaslighting myself into believing I just needed to “try harder.” I think this is really solid advice for those first few tingles… but also, trust yourself to know when it is truly a bridge too far and the relationship is actually unhealthy, and be willing to pull the plug when it’s time — for your sake and theirs.
2026-06-23 04:21:08
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