Sydney Finn
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Camsplaining :
as a previous avoidant, I avoided dating at all until I got my shit together lol, like idk why people don't understand that's an option
2026-06-21 16:35:52
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Bre J✨⭐️🌟💫 :
Me avoiding ur advice
2026-06-22 23:33:33
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feetgobblerontheloose :
I wish I could do this. I genuinely lose sleep and start feeling unwell when I don’t cut off the person or immediately ended.
2026-06-22 07:32:00
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r :
tingle of apathy is so real 😭
2026-06-21 18:46:22
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nodayslast :
I already did it, I’ve completely went ghost.
2026-06-21 14:01:03
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1atten :
For me the more I convince myself to stay the worse it gets to the point I have to get away.
2026-06-21 12:19:31
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Sarah :
Major ice queen here. I am now in a successful relationship for 6 months because of your videos. I am working on everything still and just spiralled last night because of some silence. Pushed myself to call (which is hard for me to do) and everything was perfectly normal. Still learning I have to put in the same effort as him and not just rely on him to do it all. He seemed so happy I called and we kept talking about all our future plans. Working on saying the “I love you” first since I also only say it back to him after he says it, and I know that also means something to him. Thank you for all you’ve done for me!
2026-06-21 16:20:52
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BoraBora :
I did this today. told myself to shut up😂😂😂
2026-06-21 05:24:32
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Frikkers :
I love how the answer to both anxious and avoidant attachment styles is to regulate your nervous system before doing anything
2026-06-21 07:12:12
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love🪬 :
I tried it but turns out she’s more avoidant than me
2026-06-21 06:34:46
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p0larpops :
Very very true!! I think the most difficult part is walking that fine line between “am I just being avoidant” or “is this genuinely shitty behavior and I should walk away?” Bc I’ve been in relationships where I got scared and threw in the towel too early, but I’ve also been in relationships where I tolerated FARRRR too much nonsense bc I kept gaslighting myself into believing I just needed to “try harder.” I think this is really solid advice for those first few tingles… but also, trust yourself to know when it is truly a bridge too far and the relationship is actually unhealthy, and be willing to pull the plug when it’s time — for your sake and theirs.
2026-06-23 04:21:08
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☀️ :
I pulled it already…I’ll try again next time
2026-06-21 14:41:05
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user6144412580724 :
This also applies to friendships. I’m working on it
2026-06-21 05:23:49
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Jon :
I feel the same shit goes for anxious too. if I get that feeling I just try everything to do jack shit about it
2026-06-21 19:13:35
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King Kuro :
Too much im alr dipping
2026-06-23 06:38:49
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detective⁷ :
I'm surprised ppl give advice instead of hate... I'm all ears
2026-06-23 00:24:43
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Emmett Carter :
For real I just ignore my thoughts LMAO. I'm like "Ok edgy, chill out, they actually love you and won't secretly betray you and abandon you."
2026-06-21 17:26:32
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afwnoname :
idk friend...I haven't gotten enough engagement during the week but 6hr calls on Sundays. Seems suspicious. gonna bolt
2026-06-21 05:32:43
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erik :
most of the time I have bad first impressions so whe. I start to avoid it's kind of just me being like yeeeep I was right
2026-06-21 17:37:23
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spam :
for me its a pit of anxiety un the stomach rather than apathy
2026-06-22 05:10:11
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🤯🪓ℝ𝔞𝔮𝔲𝔢𝔩 🌈🍄🤷🏼♀️ :
ruh roh.
2026-06-21 09:07:19
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