@anxiouslyalej: Supporting a man at his lowest doesn’t guarantee you a spot at his best. It is far better to be the woman. He rewards himself with when he becomes the man he wants to be. It’s beneficial to you because being a ride or die comes at the cost of your nervous system and it’s beneficial to him because you can actually enjoy it and not resent him for the things he put you through when he was building himself up. #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #relationships #avoidantattachment #datingadvice