My parents will never say “Qala ngawe” .They hate it when you do something for yourself.
2026-06-21 12:23:07
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Minenhle Ndlovu 🤎 :
I didn’t see this by mistake 🥺
2026-06-21 11:07:58
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Yazmine (YAZ) MABASO :
My grandparents left me with their house, I gave it to my sister, I'm starting my own life from scratch.
2026-06-21 11:55:45
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LeloMaQwabe. :
To think I was planning to renovate 🙆🏻♀️
2026-06-21 16:32:45
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B :
Qala ngawe before anyone!! as long as I don't have kids, I come first!!!👍
2026-06-21 13:22:38
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🇿🇦 :
I'll start with myself 🥺🥺🥺
I'll feel bad but I gotta put me first
2026-06-21 12:38:35
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Belinda🌸💘Bongeka :
You have best parents am so proud of them this is true 🥹🥹
2026-06-21 12:01:52
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𝓟𝓮𝓷𝓷𝔂 :
My mom always preaches this!
2026-06-21 18:55:57
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THE_BOSSLADY :
Amen 🙏 family is so selfish. ❤️I’ve learnt this the hard way.
2026-06-22 07:40:36
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noma_084 :
Recently bought a property for my kids since my parents left me without a home... Last week I feeling guilty that I didn't do anything for my family kodwa after seeing this video I had to start this new journey for myself and kids.. Growing up without a home is not a great thing😭
2026-06-22 17:01:07
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Kausar :
My parents are gone, big sis renovated but she lives there with her kids, peacefully so cos we all left. But she wants me to contribute. No, I'm building my own. I'm 30 years old
2026-06-22 05:38:25
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Mmatshepo_Nene🌸 :
I just discovered this recently i mean it goes along with healing don’t heal others while you still broken, start with yourself first!❤️🫂
2026-06-21 09:29:07
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Meander :
Buzani mina 🥺 I wasted my 20s renovating their home, today am out renting starting from scratch
2026-06-22 20:42:16
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🇿🇦Mologadi Malatji :
Left my partner cos he works for his parents home, like everything must go there. We can’t do anything of our own. It got point to a point where his mom told me to get a loan and help him marry me cos her son is still building her a home
2026-06-23 17:45:22
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Sikhonathi :
You have the best parents ❤️🥹
2026-06-21 12:26:36
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ntobe_myeza28 :
unabazali cc 😍🥹
2026-06-21 23:23:43
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Maka Zenzonhle :
Bayakuthanda abazali bakho🥺🤗 Qala ngawe wena ngakaqali don't make the same mistakes eyenziwe ithina bafwethu💔😥Vusa ikhaya usunakho okwakho🙏🏼
Ngyafisa ukuqala ngami but as muntu okhulele kwagogo and my mother zange Abe namandla wokwenza ikhaya for thina so nje ngiqale khona ekhaya 😭😭😭akukho easy but Kunjalo bakithi
2026-06-21 09:24:56
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🌈✨🫧Ma Dlaminie :
I didn’t see this by mistake 🥰❤️
2026-06-21 11:57:10
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_SbusisoMvana :
pour into yourself until you overflow so that you can pour into others.❤️
2026-06-21 21:13:25
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The Chosen One :
these are conversations we need to have as families seriously coz its hard and sad. Be grateful for those teachings from uour parents, makes me miss my Dad for these teachings too. Mina andillifuni ilifa lamuntu and I have made it clear to siblings
2026-06-21 09:16:48
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Ayanda Phohlo :
I wish I started with myself 😔😔but we learn the hard way
2026-06-21 12:17:59
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