@history_art_philosophy: The Harvard Study of Adult Development tracked over 700 people for more than 80 years to find the real secret to a happy life. In their twenties almost everyone fell into the same trap: pouring all their energy into career, money, and status, assuming success equals happiness. But the strongest predictor of health and joy as you age isn’t your resume, it’s your relationships. They call it ‘social fitness.’ If you’re building a great career but letting your friendships slip, this is your reminder to rethink your priorities. #psychology #health #knowledgesharing #lesson #SelfImprovement

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adiisvcute
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I can't help but wonder if the "trap" here is finding early financial security which affords much more agency in life. including the opportunity to worry less about money which would free up time which can be invested in finding meaningful interpersonal relationships...
2026-06-22 02:38:33
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sb_haz
hzn :
looks like i’m in for an unhappy life
2026-06-21 22:19:35
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skafdouwebob
L 💾 :
but if the happiest people all made the same mistake is it really a mistake?? what
2026-06-21 21:41:55
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rharha.jenkins
Rharha Jenkins :
social relationships are no different then chasing money , they require social currency, actual money, time and being attractive. its no different and even more exhausting cause of the constant disappointment
2026-06-23 21:07:08
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blakelivelysmole
Blake lively’s mole :
I WAS UNEMPLOYED AT 25!!!
2026-06-23 14:35:52
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leannestarkey
starlea :
I think it's all about balance. You can get educated and have a career whilst also enjoying life and building good relationships. It doesn't have to be one or the other
2026-06-22 09:21:46
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user89th
user8978916756 :
There is nothing wrong with that. We don’t live in a utopia…we need money to create a life. That’s like saying people in their teens wasted their time studying and not partying. This take assumes you are doing this alone, when in fact you are locking in with work colleagues, that’s community, the same way college is a community when you are building for the future. Of course no one thinks success equals happiness, but you can’t design a great life without sacrificing time studying hard at high school, university and then building a career in your 20s. These takes are not useful to those that really need to create wealth…lock in and enjoy present moments, it’s really that simple.
2026-06-22 07:52:42
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katesreadsnreviews
kateske :
Oh goodie, I just turned 25
2026-06-22 19:44:16
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gnilfuon
Nona :
I honestly think you have to read the promise of happiness by sara ahmed, because it is a needed critique of these studies
2026-06-22 10:25:34
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swizz1210
tw121 :
You spend the first five years tryina get with the plan
2026-06-22 13:19:02
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luckykage7
ifb :
friends won't keep a roof over my head 99% of the time
2026-06-24 03:22:24
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johnhowel
John Howell :
You spend the first five years trying to get with the plan, then the next five years trying to be with your friends again
2026-06-23 17:57:02
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kylemurphy_4
Kyle Murphy :
Easier said than done, hardly have any time to see anyone as I’m doing shift work at the moment
2026-06-21 23:21:36
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livinglikelauren
lauren :
I worked but partied all my 20's. Now we're 40 and settled down. We don't regret it at all, we enjoyed our youth.
2026-06-24 07:21:24
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teethmissing
Armpit :
Ah. I’m doing neither
2026-06-23 22:23:37
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yahsfollower1
HalleluYah :
I’m cooked
2026-06-24 06:09:55
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spread_the_word224
Joe smoe224 :
Oxford study 😁
2026-07-08 07:16:56
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anushkaextended
anushka ⭐️ :
I love a related quote that urges one to be as ambitious about their relationships & friendships as they are about their career
2026-06-24 17:56:15
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amberjillian
amberjillian :
@amberjillian: Happiness is the pursuit of a goal well worth achieving - plus social support
2026-06-24 01:13:36
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lavenderandred_
𝕯𝖊𝖑𝖔𝖗𝖊𝖘 :
i worked crazy shifts during my early 20s. it set up my finances and work experience well, but i stopped running factories at 25 (with a hefty pay cut) to focus on my social life. going 9-5 was the best decision i ever made. i always knew that i wasn’t going to be on shift forever, but it’s even more entrenched now i’ve got such amazing people in my life that i wouldn’t have found if i was still doing the hours i was going. obviously everyone is different and not everyone is able to take a cut in pay, but my advice would be to do so if you’re able.
2026-06-22 16:21:43
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n1ranked
cause of :
water found in ocean
2026-06-24 12:29:03
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cuxi706
cuxi :
Friends come and go. Hard to be happy without financial security
2026-06-25 02:26:40
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floofydragana
floofydragana :
im doomed
2026-06-24 23:04:19
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ammxlany
Andreas :
Meanwhile the myth is “a happy life” life is good days and bad.
2026-07-30 23:51:54
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davesony5
Dave Sony :
the more you are happy ironically the more you make more money
2026-07-13 20:06:37
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