Fashionably Divorced
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Sunday 21 June 2026 10:42:57 GMT
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Tracey :
Once, after 36 yrs, something just clicked that morning, walked out and never went back x
2026-06-21 11:18:00
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mmunro1 :
He said if u you leave, you can’t come back, I don’t take exs back. Every time I left he reeled my tired, confused, gaslit arse back in. He’s still chasing me - 6yrs after I finally left him. 🤷♀️
2026-06-21 11:06:12
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Meretrx1026 :
it was pretty much that for me. and I was one of those who said I'd never tolerate abuse
2026-06-24 20:39:53
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CANDY 🍬 LASKOWSKI… :
My last abuse was 10 times he was a a narcissist, and he would sexual physical financial abuse me for seven years keep me on limbo gaslight me daily hit me and beat me up, cheated on me with whoever whenever whatever accuse me of it I left to go out of state to get rid of them had to come back to State to start my divorce. He’s a stalker I pay for everything he had started his business. He started rumors about me. That was never true and he likes to convince people that is true. He claims he’s got cancer. I was waiting for him to die. He tried to kill me plenty of times abandoned me took me to California left me silver so lots of times and I’m from Michigan now divorced.
2026-06-21 15:06:41
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sheilaowens :
is this why we get paid less to work? So we couldn't afford to leave? men need to get out of office ASAP
2026-06-21 14:09:12
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ashleyfl19 :
I lost count, but when my dad died I ended it after 10 years. I don’t know if it’s a thing or not but when people say “he’ll always be with you” (my dad) I couldn’t let him see that.
2026-06-21 12:39:16
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Angie Angel :
Heartbreaking the number of times people say ‘why didn’t you just leave?’ Its not possible!! Unless you have been in that place you will NEVER understand!!
2026-06-21 22:27:40
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Opal :
Many tries and then he died suddenly from a stoke. The happiest day in my life. After 20 years of abuse I was free
2026-06-22 00:06:32
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Kassie Hopkins :
Mine was more like 15-20…
2026-06-21 13:00:30
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Kelly :
Its taken 4x of him leaving me high and dry with 2 young children and thankfully I always had my grandmother and we are finally divorcing and I'm out of this marital situation July 1st!! I've had it. I 51 and need some years back
2026-06-21 10:59:05
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linksmom :
So many I lost count
2026-06-21 12:02:17
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Amy 🌱🤍 :
actually refreshing to listen to someone like you who seems so head strong talk about going back and not being able to leave. People judge me for not being strong enough but if someone like you struggled it make me feel better
2026-06-21 13:53:08
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MikaelaIncognito :
Sadly, for Trad wives with multiple children, it's not how many times, sadly, the question is how many YEARS did it take to leave. It's a terrifying thought when not being able to afford another place, how to feed the children (who all needed braces), on and on.... Plus, gaslighting myself and how I thought it was selfish to deprive my children of a nice home, a nice school, on and on. It's a psychological nightmare.
2026-06-21 18:08:50
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Cindy :
It took around 15 times as well for me
2026-06-21 11:29:58
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rhonda :
With my kids Dad I made him leave after one of the times I found out he was cheating. Finally divorced him after at least 3 more times. Had 2 other partners that were abusive & it took me numerous times with both. With the last one I had a women’s group pay for me to move & get a restraining order. They were a wonderful resource. Then I went through a divorce recovery program & finally learned about boundaries at age 45 & never looked back!
2026-06-21 15:48:38
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weirdnj1976 :
here i am, im calming down till finances are better, but I can only hold off for a week anymore. so when he has off I try to exit so no blow ups
2026-06-21 11:13:34
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Lucy :
I did it in 6 FINALLY after he threatened me with a gun
2026-06-21 13:24:49
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Suffering but slaying :
More times than I’m proud to admit
2026-06-21 11:01:35
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Merlin :
The 3rd time was the good one. But I thought to leave many more times, wishing to win the lottery so I could leave sooner.
2026-06-21 11:33:51
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jodietyrell :
❤️❤️❤️Yep
2026-06-21 10:54:56
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Sofenia :
In my case I didn't ever attempted to leave. I learned as a small kid just to endure, so i didn't. I did look up a few times, if i was being abused. The problem was that her gaslighting was so strong that it convinced me that I was the abuser. I would have either lived the rest of my life with the abuse or ended it all, if not for the discard
2026-06-21 12:40:58
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jackieknowsnow :
It took me at least a dozen times to finally leave for good. There was so much back and forth for years. He would beg and make promises. Grandkids were being born and I was made to feel like I was destroying the family. It was so awful, there are days I can’t believe I survived it.
2026-06-21 10:54:06
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Ms.Garcia😘 :
I had been dreaming of my own place for at least 3 years before I left. I kept thinking it would get better. Even the marriage counselor asked if I had started making a plan to leave. When I did finally leave, I still tried to reconsile 2x before being officially done. He did something unforgivable.
2026-06-21 17:00:09
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Miss.K :
I said it in my head many times but the try was one, my friend left and came back four times, tge fifth she left completely, I'm so proud of her
2026-06-21 11:06:23
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bexegirl :
same i learnt about trauma bond then it was easier bc i understood had to practice self love
2026-06-21 11:43:44
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