@john35462: When you are in a long distance relationship, it takes effort to stay connected. Some people think updates are a sign of control. Some may use them that way, but in a healthy LDR, it's how you learn each other's routines and build trust and stay connected. It does respect and consideration for your partner and settles any worries before they even have a chance to begin. When you both know you've found your favorite person in the whole world, then you want to be connected to them. Life is just so much better when they feel close. #creatorsearchinsights #longdistancelove #stayconnected #trustbuilding #relationshipgoals @Jellie Ann