@loveletters_bylori: Avoidants don’t always love the way you love. Pay attention to the signs, but don’t ignore your own needs either. Love matters. Consistency matters too. And if your needs are constantly going unmet, you’re allowed to choose yourself. What’s one sign you’ve noticed? #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachmenttheory #relationshipadvice #datingandrelationships #coachlori
An avoidant loving you is the worst case scenario! Imagine knowing someone loves you but will leave on a random Tuesday
2026-06-22 19:56:17
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Vanny :
he always comes back.. but the cycle is exhausting
2026-06-22 16:03:06
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feliciiachriistine :
I’m with an avoidant , I don’t get the I love yous all day , but I always get the hand on the back , foot massage out of no were , she shows it by touching. When she knows I’m really hurt that’s when she’ll get a little verbal and let me know how she feels , not enough were it’s cheesy lovey but I love you , I love you enough to fight for you even though it’s hard for me , but I’m trying. That’s it and that’s all , and it may not be enough for people , but to me , I can’t expect something from someone that doesn’t know how to give it , I love them for who they are and if it becomes not enough for me, than I will walk away. But learn the way they love as well.
2026-06-27 19:03:40
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Aseel :
I love him but loving him is very way difficult than i thought
2026-06-21 14:18:42
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Ceejay_bubbles :
left mine recently because I was tired of him disappearing and appearing as if nothing happened. Now I'm just living, sad thing is when he thinks it has blown over he will try again and I'm tired
2026-06-22 05:28:03
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sisanda ncapayi :
his always fixing things but his not romantic 😭
2026-06-22 07:33:52
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Explorer :
He did all that. And still ghosted me💔
2026-06-21 15:35:17
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Tiny91 :
We were good literally talked for three hours one day the next ghosted me and turned out with someone else
2026-06-27 23:02:30
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Vikki Walder :
I'm not going to allow him to come back. If he can't understand that I have needs to, I don't want it.
2026-06-21 22:48:13
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Kymoon :
Mine created a whole story of how evil I was and even my past when I did nothing. Weird behavior so I doubt he’ll come back
2026-06-22 20:59:36
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. :
imagine having someone, who just comes back....never again
2026-06-21 19:25:19
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hey0car0 :
He came back so sweet, but never apologized or acknowledged the hurt I told him he caused me. I broke up the next day
2026-06-22 07:23:55
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Kevin :
I’m sorry but why would I want someone back that makes you feel hurt. No thank you. Move on to your next disappointment. It’s not going to be me.
2026-06-22 23:09:53
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H :
He showed me everything his family his friends spoke deeply about his broken relationship he had before meeting me 🥺 said he loved me indirectly but left anyway 💔
2026-06-22 01:19:31
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Mamarocca :
He came back warm but didn’t apologize (we are at the beginning of our relationship)
2026-06-21 18:12:40
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❤️💛💚 :
they don t. period.
2026-06-21 19:51:58
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Tigerwalk 🐾 :
I know it hurts but I'm not going to leave him. I won't chase though
2026-06-21 19:41:42
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mariam191o :
Ya3ney Tuzz cuz ain’t no time for back and forth
2026-06-27 08:21:25
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Angel Powers915 :
Well I’m loosing interest
2026-06-22 16:25:10
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Marbie :
What if we’ve been dating for 3 years never went to his house, never met his family or friends, and doesn’t take me out on dates??
2026-06-22 01:42:21
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Mikfung :
so he always comes back with bread crumbs , i dont know what it means its been 6years
2026-06-22 19:40:50
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Rossy Rose♥️💋 :
Well am losing interest ✌
2026-06-22 14:40:14
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S i m o n a 🩵 :
He is just sending me reels, not every day though and sometimes asks me how are things going … 🌝🌝🌝
2026-06-21 18:41:54
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N🧚🏻 :
So he never loved me 😔
2026-06-25 14:13:37
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p32.0 :
Me
2026-06-25 19:54:03
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