This feels so validating 🥹 I'm struggling so hard since leaving... I'm so confused
2026-06-21 20:50:47
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mich :
The fear of making the wrong decision is hard.
2026-07-28 18:41:17
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Definitely not Laura :
What if he says mental load is an internet fad and we all have things going on. What if he says he will try better to help you but only does the food shopping/cooking because you told him to do that? What if he says I don’t get why it pains you so much to remind me about things. What about if he says he hates cleaning and it makes him angry? What if he says he can’t think like me so he can’t see the things that need doing around the house? What if he says he only likes doing things he wants to do because he finds things like cleaning or doing the laundry low reward and forgets to do them because he moves in to doing what he wants. What if when you ask him why he can function as a partner when you are not there by taking care of things in the house but magically can’t when you are there and when you ask him he says because you’re a distraction and he’d rather sit and watch tv with you than do his chores? Asking for a friend…
2026-08-13 16:35:41
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s.glbrk :
Do they always know what they’re doing?
2026-07-30 15:57:36
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Emma Conway :
What do you do if you’ve left but you feel bad and do want to go back but you know that pattern will never change!? Do you just cut them off is that the only way you can heal? This video was super helpful thank you so much I needed to hear this, this morning ✨
2026-06-23 06:15:43
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Travel With Bek :
I asked him to leave 18 months ago but we are still ‘friends’ and he says all the things I want to hear but I see no follow through. I get stuck because he’s not nasty as such. The fear of making the wrong decision keeps me stuck too.
2026-06-26 03:11:04
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Faith Lily :
Cognitive Dissonance
2026-07-14 02:35:18
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sofiapanagiotou11 :
I think you described it PERFECTLY👌
2026-06-23 22:24:52
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Jacqueline :
Geez, your reels provide so much clarity. Thank you for them 💛
2026-06-24 07:16:52
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jayhutton1304 :
Couldn’t of said it better myself describes exactly how I’ve felt for 18 months
2026-07-03 13:46:35
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B🦋 :
THIS THIS THIS
2026-06-24 04:08:58
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judylamont :
I want to get away
2026-06-24 08:55:27
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Sarah-Louize :
thankyou
2026-06-22 02:59:49
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sofiapanagiotou11 :
It's so painful to accept😳
2026-06-24 10:18:20
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StarlingSwallow :
Exactly. They now EXACTLY what they are doing. I thought he loved me but in ALL his actions, he was showing me he hated me! Behavior is a language. Watch and then leave! You are worth more than being hated and abused! 💗💗💗
2026-06-21 19:27:51
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doodah16 :
I can now see I was in an emotionally abusive marriage for 20 years, it was awful.
2026-06-21 21:59:30
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Echoes and Embers :
what if he says he does feel remorse and has said he knows what he did was wrong....but the next time we fight it happens again.......
2026-06-23 05:17:26
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RedHeadPanda :
I know I'm a idiot now but she wasn't like this just a month ago and I know she Act in this way because she's hurting I can do jack s*** about it... but I want too, even if I fall
2026-07-08 13:05:21
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Echoes and Embers :
when i tell my partner hebtrying to control me etc then he says why would he do this intentionally and sabotage the relationship he says im not thinking logically because of my anxiety. he says he does everything for me so why would he actively do this....so now I think it is me and why can't I just make this work but I feel im not doing anything im acting like myself
2026-06-23 05:21:51
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mellisahindd :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-21 21:58:20
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