@millygoldsmith: 📔chapter 37: the sweet spot of an anxious avoidant It’s the perfect recipe for eternal singleness part of me is relieved to know this but also part of me is like “damn it so I really do have to put in the work” the thing is I think so many more people than I realise are like this but just have no idea it’s something so ingrained in them like for me I’ve blamed bad dates, guys, timing, luck etc (which all definitely come into play), and thought I was ‘icked out’ by the guy but really I think I was icked out by the feeling of discomfort and unfamiliarity never felt normal to me to feel liked by someone so when I did feel that I was like ew what no that doesn’t feel right? madness anyway the book I was reading dives into it and with every sentence it was literally speaking to my soul Loved every chapter, would highly recommend if you want to read about interesting nuance topics or questions you might not have thought about or understood enough :)))) It’s called Things I Told My Notes App xxxx

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