@vibe_samurai: The other day, an influencer told me that if you’re over 30, unmarried, and don’t have kids, you’re “problematic.” The comment got 56 likes. Then he deleted it. What interested me wasn’t the comment. It was the ruler behind it. Because sometimes people aren’t describing you. They’re trying to convince themselves. Go deeper on Substack. Link in bio. Need help untangling a hidden rule that’s running your life? Book a Breakthrough Call. Link in bio. #MindsetShift #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #Psychology #VibeSamurai

Jamiegege :

The only measure is your own. Nothing else matters.

OluwaSon :

I agree and I’m over 30 and not married

Twitter :

just to let you know, on the comments section we are all over 30 without kids and not married. we are good people and we don't melt under pressure

Htown546 :

Your response was great 🔥💛

The Eagle has Landed :

Thx Vibe Samurai!! Always the smartest dude in the room im sure!

mahmood :

be the right person,and hopefully you will find one too🥰

Mimzey 🍁 :

I love your posts.

ME :

Being an introvert by nature I was lucky to find the mother of my children. Kids for me have been a crutch in a way as they came along shortly after I quit drinking and helped me fill that void with something meaningful. Now I’m blessed with grandkids and can’t imagine life without them. Kids are not for everyone however but I am blessed.

🅰️E☯️N♏Gℹ️®️L :

"Having a child doesn't prove anything about your character" That's true,it won't be measured by the character of a person having a child or not .

Shauna Samuel278 :

Im over 40 have 2 kids and not married and I'm all good

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christmasday2024 :

yes thank you 😢

Chad Guthrie 💨&🐂💩 :

agreed, odd rule ro me personally

#Godsaidit# :

Who cares what others think? Enjoy your life, mate.🥰🥰🥰

Jay-Jay :

Thank you for the reminder. I will remember that

Za :

I'm 43, never wanted a wife or kids. I realised earlier that I'm not built to raise another human being or be tied to them for life. I know my limitations and I'm happy on my own.

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Abita :

35 and single im considered as problematic as an African woman but im okay with that

Leslie J Perez Rico :

I am divorced, childless ,been single over 6 years ,what is my excused then ?😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

Krayon :

I don’t know why, but the first thing that came to me when I heard you say that, was people who aren’t married or don’t have children, are not buying and paying for all the things that make them “a good little consumer” ….maybe it’s all about the bottom line, like everything else in today’s world 🙏🏻❤️

Lfhusin Husin :

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Goldengirl :

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Happy Teehankee :

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kmpchkd :

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