@growwithkaela: A dismissive avoidant leaves you questioning your worth. A fearful avoidant leaves you questioning your reality. They’re different attachment styles that leave a different kind of damage, and it’s important for you to understand behind the behavior so you stop blaming yourself for either. Fearful Avoidants are basically a hybrid between Dismissive and Anxious attachment styles, so that’s why there is so much more push and pull. ❤️‍🩹

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xlimpinx :
Is there a mix of both ?? Because they both describe my avoidant
2026-06-22 15:53:04
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maevemystic
maeve.mystic :
FA here finally broke the trauma bond woth a DA. 5.5 years of total fuckery
2026-08-03 03:55:10
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bepski5
bepski :
Stop giving either one attention. Hold the accountable for their behavior. Love yourself more.
2026-06-21 23:04:23
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aurelizfr
Aurelia :
What if in day to day life they are very calm organized wants to control..leaning to DA. Never say i love you but always gives effort. But the push and pull is crazy. 2 weeks of intimacy, then they always have a questions that always leads to a fight with their black & white thinking without compromise. They didnt shut down but always start a fight after intimacy. And always defensive. But when i said i just wanna be indifferent bcs i cant with the push and pull, they said they dont want me to be indifferent. Is this more with DA or FA?
2026-09-11 05:44:07
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zombie_woof
queen of outer space :
My style is Disorganized attachment, I ruin every single relationship 😭
2026-07-27 17:57:49
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bepositivebetruebekind
Lorenzo :
I had dated a fearful advoident and indeed I was confused, hypervigilant, and yes more attached. It’s been almost 2 months since the breakup and I’m still going through withdrawals.
2026-06-22 22:50:53
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emdeeemay
em :
And they can be fearful avoidant and lean more dismissive… it’s fkn awful
2026-07-15 03:35:46
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velvet_abyss_
Velvet_Abyss_ :
FA—doubting your reality👌👏
2026-06-21 22:51:25
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thetacocat
TheTacoCat :
any advice for aFA dating aDA?
2026-07-16 17:57:59
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nickwhite55
Nick White :
Um mine does all of these things
2026-06-22 23:31:21
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dmoney0113
DMoney :
I don't know about all that!??...🤔🤔🤔.... I'm an FA and I'm not cruel at all😒🙄☝️... I assume because I'm an Securely attached FA🤔
2026-07-06 11:58:33
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trentmerkle
Trent Merkle :
My FA girl makes me feel crazy. Seems like every deactivation gets more intense. Was great for 3 years when we moved in together it blew up.
2026-06-22 17:44:42
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slc_d
SLC D :
who cares. that's like labeling an American vampire vs a European vampire. both are vampires and so are avoidants. they only come out to feed
2026-06-23 04:29:14
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