@growwithkaela: A dismissive avoidant leaves you questioning your worth. A fearful avoidant leaves you questioning your reality. They’re different attachment styles that leave a different kind of damage, and it’s important for you to understand behind the behavior so you stop blaming yourself for either. Fearful Avoidants are basically a hybrid between Dismissive and Anxious attachment styles, so that’s why there is so much more push and pull. ❤️🩹
Is there a mix of both ?? Because they both describe my avoidant
2026-06-22 15:53:04
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bepski :
Stop giving either one attention. Hold the accountable for their behavior. Love yourself more.
2026-06-21 23:04:23
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maeve.mystic :
FA here finally broke the trauma bond woth a DA. 5.5 years of total fuckery
2026-08-03 03:55:10
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queen of outer space :
My style is Disorganized attachment, I ruin every single relationship 😭
2026-07-27 17:57:49
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TheTacoCat :
any advice for aFA dating aDA?
2026-07-16 17:57:59
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Lorenzo :
I had dated a fearful advoident and indeed I was confused, hypervigilant, and yes more attached. It’s been almost 2 months since the breakup and I’m still going through withdrawals.
2026-06-22 22:50:53
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quietlysovereign :
FA—doubting your reality👌👏
2026-06-21 22:51:25
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Em :
And they can be fearful avoidant and lean more dismissive… it’s fkn awful
2026-07-15 03:35:46
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Nick White :
Um mine does all of these things
2026-06-22 23:31:21
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DMoney :
I don't know about all that!??...🤔🤔🤔.... I'm an FA and I'm not cruel at all😒🙄☝️... I assume because I'm an Securely attached FA🤔
2026-07-06 11:58:33
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Trent Merkle :
My FA girl makes me feel crazy. Seems like every deactivation gets more intense. Was great for 3 years when we moved in together it blew up.
2026-06-22 17:44:42
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SLC Dave :
who cares. that's like labeling an American vampire vs a European vampire. both are vampires and so are avoidants. they only come out to feed
2026-06-23 04:29:14
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