I changed my life based on my kids and my husband just like this. I was serving tables and got promoted to hourly manager pretty quickly after I had my second baby. Then promoted to salary not long after that. I was the low man on the totem pole and got the shit shifts. All nights and weekends. My babies were at daycare and had to be there no later than 9 even if I didn’t work until 2pm. I was only getting 2 days a week with them outside of my few hours in the morning. This put a strain on my husband and I relationship because I was never home to help with the kids or to actually actively be his wife. I ultimately made the decision to step down and go back to serving tables again and I am able to work just Monday-Friday for lunch which is perfectly within daycare schedule. We have since had another baby and I don’t miss a single thing for any of my kids. It’s truly the best thing and exactly what I am supposed to be doing. I am replaceable on every aspect of my life except being their mom ♥️
2026-06-22 02:20:17
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Sarah :
I also base my decision (big and small) around what works for my kids and allows me to be PRESENT.
2026-06-25 01:08:14
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talrac :
In a similar situation myself. My employer rolled out a voluntary separation program with more layoffs to follow this fall. You have to do what's best for your family, that's what it comes down to and no one else can make that decision.
2026-06-22 16:16:03
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april08❤️ :
Make the best decision for your family. And you’re 1000% right to enjoy your kids while they’re still at home. They grow up waaay too fast ❤️❤️❤️
2026-06-21 23:14:04
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Christy🤩 :
Don’t be sorry, you have to do what is best for you and your kids. They do still need you!!! Good Luck!!!!
2026-06-22 03:31:50
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melissawolfetait :
You are a very wise responsible woman! Do not underestimate your ability to make decisions!
2026-06-22 01:11:20
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❤️Momma Rhonda!💞 :
That baby looks a lot like you, he is a doll baby
2026-06-21 23:55:54
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SarahDay1217 :
praying for you!
2026-06-22 00:26:29
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mrslombs :
100% agree, you have to put yourself and your family and their needs first!
2026-06-22 14:19:20
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Emily Cooksey Mehaff :
I’m glad you got to go on a mini vacation & to see your Dad. Sending prayers for you & your family!
2026-06-22 00:41:39
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MarlaMoo :
Period they are you’re babies they are amazing kids and. You sure do but you are amazing and I feel the same way you are feeling and you keep pushing me to do better
2026-06-21 23:19:45
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KG🕊 :
No luck given ... BUT lifting you up in BIG, BOLD PRAYERS!! Glad you guys had a great trip and made it back safe..
2026-06-22 18:56:17
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leelee :
Whatever you have decided I’m sure it will work out! You didn’t come this far just to come this far🥰🙏
2026-06-22 01:06:02
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Nicole Zimmerman :
One way or another it will work out just the way it is supposed to! There is always a way! So whatever you choose it is the right decision! You can’t allow yourself to be a slave to something that doesn’t make you happy!!! And it is very obvious that your kids make you the happiest!! So do right by them and that’s what matters most!!! 💜💜💜
2026-06-22 11:18:33
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angelaboyd420_69 :
good luck girl
2026-06-21 23:03:15
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Heather - Runs & Shops :
Those big blue eyes!
2026-06-22 03:05:51
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cara7162 :
Good luck tomorrow! Everything will work out! I’m glad you had good weekend with your family 💕
2026-06-22 00:03:58
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Tatted_Vet_Dad🇺🇸🍾🧌 :
Praying for you
2026-06-22 01:06:49
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Sammi Riley :
Wish you all the prayers
2026-06-22 01:54:05
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Katie :
I had to walk away from a pretty decent job 15 months ago. My mental health couldn't take it anymore and I needed to be home with my babies. It has been HARD financially, but I wouldn't change a thing. My kids are 2.5 now and the joy I get being home with them outweighs anything money can buy.
2026-06-22 04:53:25
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Maggie Hightower :
I love governors square mall!!
2026-06-22 03:14:12
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Faith Thomas :
Do what you need to do! Sometimes if a door is closed you have to look for an open window!!!
2026-06-21 23:27:33
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sharpgirl :
good luck
2026-06-22 12:33:39
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Grandma :
Hope you had a great time at your dads!! Sending prayers for you and your family❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
2026-06-24 04:44:00
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lily.25 :
Beautiful family 🩷🩷 I’m glad you took some time for yourself and your family
2026-06-21 23:22:21
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