Sydney Finn
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areolagrande00 :
The call is coming from inside the house
2026-06-21 23:11:41
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JayJay :
I am still trying to manage how different it is with romantic relationships, when I do not feel insecurity in any other relationships (friends, family, work, etc.). It’s so annoying because I just want to be the girl that I am in those other relationships in romantic ones 😂
2026-06-22 02:39:25
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esti :
i got my rude awakening when a week situationship sending me in to a spiral and acting out of character lol im working on myself now
2026-06-23 12:45:57
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Buki :
That's because most people view having desire for someone else as a loss of power. It's a shame thing.
2026-06-22 05:43:56
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RavenLover🐦⬛🖤 :
You can secure all day long until you’re tested. It’s other people and situations that test where you actually are at that moment. And every test makes you stronger. That’s why swearing off (fill in the blank) never makes anything actually better. Each situation makes you stronger.
2026-06-22 13:55:57
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not-your-average-primate 🇿🇦 :
your content seriously gives me hope in humanity
2026-06-22 23:14:54
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mvdd_w :
I took an emotional risk by going back to a man I was dating because I felt like I left him for these reasons. I told him that we should talk and continue to get to know each other each other. In the end, it didn’t work out but I’m proud and I have no ´what if’ about this relationship anymore. I now know for sure that we weren’t meant to be
2026-06-22 03:16:22
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FACED by Sia :
This does not apply in situations that involve triangulation
2026-06-22 07:53:28
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jessabunny1020 :
wow she ain't lying
2026-06-22 18:48:12
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simplydani_d :
Your content helped so much and I only just found you the other day. I have had this extremely traumatic Situationship for the last year and a half. My journaling (which I’m now turning into a memoir) helped me realize I had an anxious attachment. I understood what it meant but the way you describe stinking really resonated with me. When he and I first started dating, even though he said he wasn’t seeing anybody my body knew that he was. I became anxiously attached very early on and let a lot of my boundaries disappear to make him happy. And what do you know? that didn’t work. I reeked of anxiousness. Every time I detached that’s when he became obsessed. every time I became anxious that’s when he withdrew. When I truly didn’t care if I would ever hear from him again that’s when he would be crawling on his knees. When I watched my phone every second that’s when he was distant. I’m now just realizing all of this after a year and a half. He’s no longer in my life as of very recently and I’m having a very hard time detaching but I’m working on it in your content has helped.
2026-06-21 23:24:59
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djoj :
You know, your videos are helping in a different way too. There's this girl that seems to really like me, but sometimes acts like this when I am in normal conversation distance. Didn't feel like she was still interested, almost like she suddenly saw something that made her not like me anymore. I figured it could be nerves, thinking back of your videos (Probably partially because of my cologn in that moment too), but was still pretty hard. A few weeks later all good signals were back. I also noticed talking seems easier for us from a little distance, for example with a table in between of us. I think it'll take quite some time to grow close enough to be able to talk comfortably. We're both very insecure like that 😂 But I am taking it really slow, and trying to find steps towards her that feel good and like the right thing. That seems to work!
2026-06-22 07:40:44
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Brandy :
I am very secure myself now after taking a lot of pointers from you and I’ve practiced and done a lot of your techniques and they really work. It’s actually got me back to talking to a guy that I had bad cologne with. But I have noticed some things since I stopped being so anxious all the time about everything this man I’m with never compliments me like ever. I’m not too worried about if he’s interested in me because it’s gonna eventually show but I hear a lot of people say that that’s kind of like a red flag but could that in any possible world be not a bad thing like he’s never really gave me a compliment when I send him pictures or anything. He never likes it. He never says anything about it. Which is fine like I know a lot of people are not vocal and I know I’m dealing with a man that’s shy and not a vocal man so my cologne is in good standing. I just noticed it and wanted your take on that.
2026-06-22 00:06:07
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0.1999s :
Sidney, by listening to your videos I realized this like a week ago. I’m so happy you talked about it this today. Every time I feel the urge to remove a person from my life, I remember your teachings and work hard on realizing it’s just me and to work on myself. Thank you!!!
2026-06-22 05:12:25
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Madi Shae :
Do we just need to learn to build up a tolerance to facing these issues or how do we fix it
2026-06-22 21:02:16
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Liz :
So what’s the solution
2026-06-23 09:41:00
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sourmami :
This is me. Secure really means just not activated lol I’m in therapy and working on it. Love your videos
2026-06-22 21:36:45
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Vanillin :
i always feel insecure... and it's definitely me.
2026-06-22 12:33:09
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Wild Oklahoma (Cinnamon Girl) :
How do we correct this?
2026-06-23 03:47:33
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ola.folawiyo :
Sounds about right
2026-06-22 13:53:55
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Madi Shae :
This is sooooo true
2026-06-22 21:01:03
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chelseanoted :
all my insecurities are surfacing and i’m not even attached to this guy hahaha i hope it’s a good thing to find out now and deal with it now than later 🫠
2026-06-22 06:02:02
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Agreekable :
Damn this story is about me
2026-06-22 05:14:15
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sohardtofindausername13 :
1:1 🌸
2026-06-22 04:25:25
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AleAleAle :
That’s me yikes
2026-06-22 21:56:27
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