I would keep changing how I told him or asked him for things because I honestly thought if could figure out how to say it he would understand.
2026-06-22 06:19:34
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heidrow66gmail.com :
I always thought I just failed to use the right words
2026-06-22 19:59:04
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Izzie :
I need help in my relationship if anyone can help me
2026-06-23 22:13:26
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athomas46 :
You know, as much as I rehearse the conversations, it never goes the way it needs to go, I get angry because he doesn't listen to reasonable conversation and only hears me attacking him, no matter if I use "I" statements or just telling him how I feel. I was telling him I was struggling mentally because of lack of sleep and he still took it as me attacking him, when it had nothing to do with him. It is exhausting to have lack of sleep and even more so because of his lack of listening skills.
2026-06-25 11:59:10
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Sar :
And the person attending the workshop? The one who’s burnt out.
2026-06-24 02:14:29
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jennybeddy :
exactly the 2nd reason my 26 yr marriage ended
2026-06-22 06:20:09
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initialhappy :
I can never give my hubs quiet encouragement and hints. He never gets mine. Yet, I feel like I live on edge bc he’s a perfectionist and he lets me know, constantly, how I fall short.
2026-06-25 06:20:36
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Emmakate :
This but reaction is not defensive but totally oblivious and throws therapy speak phrases to feign understanding and engagement ultimately leading to same conversation every few weeks
2026-06-24 14:58:58
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Sydney Younger :
I do this but not because my husband reacts that way but because my past trauma has trained me for that. My husband is so incredibly understanding and has even begun to tell when I am rehearsing in my head and will say “I see something happening in your head, do you want to talk about it?”
2026-06-24 11:38:00
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Queenofmakedo :
Yeah, way too late for this
2026-06-24 13:46:12
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T blankeaux :
my therapist and I would strategize this for years
2026-06-22 20:04:16
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Curbside Resurrection Design :
I matched their energy and spoke to him like he spoke to me
2026-06-23 16:12:41
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Mickeycrack :
What is your whole life you have to rehearse conversations even everyday ones
2026-06-28 16:32:29
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Just*JennX :
This is how I talk to everyone.
2026-06-24 04:27:11
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🌻Bev🌻 :
Im just TIRED
2026-06-22 01:39:27
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Sherry :
JFC ….. I had a good weekend too … thanks😩😩😩
2026-06-22 03:00:35
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heidrow66gmail.com :
Don’t forget considering all body language. 😥
2026-06-24 02:22:27
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Erica Shorr :
Always listening
2026-06-21 23:20:33
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Luminous journey :
How do I sign up for the free workshop?
2026-07-07 21:11:05
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Nadya Basinger_backup :
Not sure how to feel about
2026-06-28 13:46:54
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Mpho Ch’cove :
📌
2026-06-24 15:32:02
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Weather :
💯
2026-06-22 02:59:25
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Phlea1977 :
I went the other way. Preparing for the attack.
2026-06-22 21:54:05
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