@vibe_samurai: 140,000 likes. One comment. Thousands of women arguing. And I don’t think they were arguing about love. I think they were arguing about regret. So let’s settle it: What’s worse? Loving more… or being loved more? Tell me which regret you’d rather live with. Go deeper on Substack. Link in bio. Need help finding the hidden rules running your life and relationships? Book a Breakthrough Call. Link in bio. #relationships #datingadvice #selfawareness #psychology #personaldevelopment
I have loved more and been loved more and its painful loving more. its better to be loved more in my opinion.
2026-06-22 03:47:57
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Emma Kamala :
I would rather he loves me more.
2026-06-22 05:39:06
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Jessica007 :
my mom said that about my dad that she chose the man that loved her because at the end he did everything for her to give her a wonderful life.
2026-06-22 01:00:23
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Costa :
the relationship should be reciprocal. love and be loved back. the worst option, inmho, is to be with someone you dont love.
2026-06-22 01:41:08
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Silvie :
Well.. telling the truth.. I never loved anyone more than I loved myself.. maybe that’s why I don’t jump into a relationship easily 🤔😉
2026-06-22 02:23:20
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Bubu :
In my marriage, we love similarly. Try to balance things and you'll be fine. I did have to wait til 40, but it paid off.
2026-06-22 05:57:33
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Ironhoop :
people say it as if the person that loves you more will CONTINUE to love you more. Or that by choosing someone that you love more, you are forever losing out. Time changes thing. Choose someone that allows you to love yourself most.
2026-06-22 10:16:46
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djm77777 :
I would always choose the man who loves me more than I love him
2026-06-22 03:29:23
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01001011 :
Instagram: the font of all knowledge 😂
2026-06-22 01:45:22
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kheart_🇺🇸🇰🇷🇵🇭ph Ko usa :
Ahhhh this is so deep 💯
2026-06-22 03:06:19
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sonniedee_ :
Bingo!
2026-06-22 01:46:21
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catia :
well i think you learn understanding youself more in both cases, this is the real point at the end.
2026-06-22 10:12:26
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CL9719 :
I think when you’re loving more, you’re at least be living your TRUTH. That’s what matters to me in the end.
2026-06-22 09:25:08
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Lee :
hard 1 , but now 66 , none of it worth it
2026-06-22 09:01:01
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user6167288372670 :
What is love?
2026-06-22 08:21:07
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Chad Guthrie 💨&🐂💩 :
you have such a great perspective
2026-06-22 02:03:46
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sheep :
I listened to this post three or four times…..still cant decide🤔….love and life can be so complicated even at my age….🫤
2026-06-22 09:00:39
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Laylee-Avalon 🇳🇱 :
I choose myself. 🌺🙏
2026-06-22 10:19:51
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puppylove :
Ultimate path, both love each other
2026-06-22 08:34:55
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Valli :
As I started to comment, my own view flipped and I realised no matter what we do, remove the ego and it’s the same.
2026-06-22 08:23:40
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r.noervi :
Loving more is better bcs at the end of the day we know we always do our best and will not feel like carrying the burden of "debt". Heartbreak of regret is scary bcs human not live forever.
2026-06-22 07:50:24
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UnderTheLoupe :
Them wanting you more does not equate to them loving you more. I chose this type of relationship instead of going with the person I loved more because that felt really bad in the end. But now I’m just stuck with someone who wants me around for their own purposes but I’m not cared for in ways that make me feel loved. Trapped.
2026-06-22 07:38:37
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