but problems shouldn’t be repeating… there shouldn’t be a constant bringing up of issues
2026-08-17 19:08:51
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Jersey May :
Disclaimer: this only works if it’s actually constructive and is able to go BOTH ways
2026-08-17 13:46:08
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mixyza_ :
This is what I did, but the other person just… couldn’t understand. Therefore, I give up. Life and time is too precious to be explaining to someone who’ll never be on the same page.
2026-07-01 13:27:45
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spamz.9324 :
But it’s taken as me “bitching” at him and telling him over and over and over again that everything he does is wrong but my babyyyy it’s not like thatttt😭
2026-08-17 17:36:26
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-ɴɪʜɪʟ- :
His fyp not mine
2026-06-22 07:32:23
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mre007_ :
resolve issues and grow, sure but constantly?? no thanks. relax/chillout this should be fun, not a complainafest.
2026-08-17 14:17:47
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val :
i agree that bringing up problems is valid, but also it has to be if both partners are in a good place and aren't overloaded. he constantly brought up issues, and i tried to help and listen no matter what. i had my own shit going on at the time and it just added onto the overwhelmingness of that, it left me feeling like i can't bring anything up because whenever i wanted to, he brought smth up first and i had to work on/solve that which just exhausted me (and then he later gave up on trying to help me when i needed it most, no matter how much i prioritized our and his problems.)
2026-07-22 19:12:36
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Stef :
On her fyp pls
2026-06-24 10:37:02
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bard :
but i end up thinking that I'm too demanding and eventually i just let him be. in return, i stopped waiting for him.
2026-07-05 16:40:05
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⎊-Taylan-⍟ :
Last night this was my mindset, she wanted me to show that I trust her and that the world dosent revolve around our relationship, I used to be an avoidant, but she changed me and made me clingy, now my clingy overthinking is too much for her, how do I tell her she is my whole world when to her I’m not her whole world?
2026-07-17 18:11:09
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lexxshea :
Apparently it’s nagging and being annoying. I tried. But some how it was always my fault
2026-08-17 17:04:42
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gray :
how is this a hot take is this not the basis of every relationship..
2026-06-25 16:36:10
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Holly🧚 :
I do this and he reassures me he knows I’m not nagging just reminding. He knows he needs to change and actively is. We’re both in therapy and on meds. Life is good with my baby.
2026-08-17 18:49:23
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Aa..Raia :
Yep well I got told I was complaining too much so !
2026-06-29 17:33:09
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alicia :
Omg this makes me feel so understood
2026-07-23 00:44:32
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Toastie_Pog :
wrong fyp.
2026-06-25 01:23:59
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lamoda :
sigh not hot take but common sense 😭
2026-08-17 07:41:04
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❀ :
but when i do all he does is get mad
2026-08-17 22:00:32
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1234 :
She aint understanding this
2026-06-28 16:49:35
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wherediditallgo :
true
2026-06-22 07:29:33
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Hannah Stream :
Put on his fyp plz xx
2026-06-23 20:11:45
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owi :
do yall not bicker with the people we love....what about your besties that "fight like sisters" or arguments ive fully witnessed between men over football and then they're hugging it out 2 mins later.....none of all have good communication skills omgg
2026-08-19 02:20:37
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Darlingg 💕 :
When I bring something up that involves something that hes doing that I don't like, I end up becoming the problem bc Im trying to change him :/
2026-08-18 15:05:56
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