@cortneygetsfit: Our marriage counselor told us to each make a list of what we needed from the other in order to make our marriage work. This was my husbands beginning.. I’ll spare you the rest. Read numbers 3 & 4 again. Put him before myself. Put everyone before myself. Regularly praise him for the life he provided. Make sure our children praised him for it too. That isn’t partnership. That is a hierarchy—and I was expected to live at the bottom of it. Yes, marriage requires effort. Yes, motherhood involves sacrifice. But a healthy relationship does not require a woman to abandon herself, constantly perform gratitude, or teach her children that one parent is the hero while the other exists to serve him. Women are allowed to have needs. Women are allowed to take up space. Women are allowed to choose themselves too. If a man expects you to put yourself last in order to keep his love… run. #healing #divorce #viral #girl #women

nyc123568 :

Wowww that list is crazy

JPL :

A list is Insane in itself.

C&D SEPTIC :

what was your list

Angel Ads :

That list is WILD! 😳

christenicole :

DG :

red flag

🌸 EWA 🌸 :

I prefer to stay single🤣🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

Doug Pearl :

Start a speaking tour a lot of young girls need your message ❤️

KIWI🦋 :

AWWWWH YOU ARE GROWING 💖

misskae777 :

My my ma'am what long distances you have traveled 😃

Judy :

Say that to yourself everyday!!!🥰

TalktherapyEmma :

That list!!! 😳

💖✨ bi🐈‍⬛chaos🌿gremlin🔮☕ :

That list is insane!😳

Teddybear :

Great words lady.

𝓚𝓪𝔂𝓵𝓪 :

😳 what did I just read

Dee :

Wow. Crazy.

Bethina33333 :

😳

Kaitlin • Marketing & Musing :

OMG WHAT!!!!?

e_6290 :

Teach your kiddos that too!

Anxious_Incarnations :

that is insanity 🤯

Mama Cheryl :

CORRECT