Second Order Mind
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Monday 22 June 2026 15:46:47 GMT
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ka1sor :
3 is a wonderful number, I stop at 1
2026-06-22 15:50:07
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Caspers0rensen :
3 is generous. I've tried more. 2 is absolute maximum now
2026-07-09 03:30:52
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Jamison Leroy Thorwald :
I ask “doth 2+2=4? Can we agree upon that much?” to see what their motivation is
2026-07-11 05:18:35
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LastAmazon :
im stopping at two...
2026-08-07 17:08:13
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Babadoodee :
With coworkers is 1x enough
2026-07-10 03:16:11
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zionl.jackson :
I also hate conversation loops
2026-08-10 09:19:56
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That Guy9502 :
i disagree with your take
2026-06-23 09:17:17
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Raven DORUMSGAARD :
the fact that you have an actually intellectual understanding of this shows you employ this tactic. you're the first person in general that I've seen outside of my fiancé that knows and uses this. you get a follow. have a wonderful day.
2026-07-11 15:12:13
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lighthouse keeper :
“You owe people clarity, you do not owe them infinite persuasion.” That’s very helpful
2026-07-21 00:44:31
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g :
Why do you choose to limit your thinking to the second order?
2026-06-24 14:24:48
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coastalbelle_ :
“Training another to withhold understanding” - indeed limit the attempts and seek another way to resolve.
2026-06-25 13:56:39
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Alexandru :
It’s not about making someone understand, it’s about convincing them that what you are saying has a intrinsic value, produces an effect, and scale of the effect. Most of the people get it perfectly and try to deflect it if it’s about them or their own perception or actions, feel attacked by being confronted and will refuse even to admit, as you said, rather than getting a hurt ego, or being required to change a perception or behaviour. Normally it’s useless to explain it three times in a similar manner, and the approach matters the most here, starting with a familiar, friendly attitude, then making comparisons between their perceptions/actions to a person they know and despise or hate, and raise in tension until their ego starts to shatter just reconsider the value of a thought reevaluation
2026-07-09 06:43:11
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uppityafrican02 :
I no longer explain or elaborate on anything, I only give people 3 chances to act right
2026-07-11 00:04:15
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Sivan Langer :
why 3?
2026-06-24 06:55:01
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stefadigno :
Love all your content 👏
2026-07-11 10:19:41
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117 :
I just had exactly one of these conversations a few days back. They just wanted to argue and win a fight. They took it to an entirely different conversation, related subject matter, but not what I was talking about. I restated what I was talking about and asked them why they went where they went. They doubled down and got really hot having this argument with themselves and who knows who else because it wasn't the subject we were talking about. 😂😂😂
2026-07-09 14:23:47
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Dom :
True
2026-06-22 18:13:15
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Bocelli :
first and i could not be more gladdd yes ma'am it takes 2 to form a connection
2026-06-22 15:50:03
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eMeSaR :
Me & my friends
2026-06-23 07:10:49
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Jennessy :
I truly love your brain.
2026-06-22 16:33:33
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xFlux :
🫶 love it 🫶 Soo well explained
2026-07-10 05:31:24
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harrypot__ :
“I don’t remember saying that” 💀
2026-07-14 09:27:16
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LeothePoet 🇵🇸 :
Oh I needed to hear this
2026-07-11 20:03:15
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Joe Hepple935 :
People prefer comfort packaged as truth as apposed to truth itself.
2026-06-29 15:08:03
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Eric Emerson :
How many times has the second or third attempt been successful after the first failure?
2026-06-22 21:00:56
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