@jenniferanncounseling: Too many side quests, not enough main quest 👀 This reel is about that familiar moment where you’re like “wait how did I get here?” Often this kind of task-switching is just how I clean and get things done in a way that works for my brain, and it feels good and energizing. But sometimes the rapid switching to different tasks is really disorienting and dysregulating for me and is more draining than energizing. I’m constantly practicing noticing what the driving factor is when I find myself doing this. I have ADHD, but if this looks familiar to you too, this isn’t always because of neurodivergence. I know a lot of people who can relate to this. Sometimes we’re just tired and overstimulated, or stressed and avoiding something, or just moving too fast (or again, sometimes this feels good and we’re regulated and energized while doing it). If this IS connected to ADHD/executive functioning differences for you, I want to remind you that the neurodivergent brain doesn’t always prioritize tasks in a neat, linear order and that’s okay. A new cue can grab your attention before you’ve had a chance to finish the thing you started. And when that happens over and over you might think “what’s wrong with me? Why am I doing this?” So I just want to normalize this for you, while reminding you that it’s a practice to pause & notice what’s prompting the task-switching. And to help yourself make a more conscious decision: do I want to keep going? Is this feeling okay? Or do I need to slow down a bit here? A few things that can help: • say the task out loud: “I am putting the sheets on the bed.” • write down the random side quest instead of doing it immediately (my brain dump and to do list app that I use helps me so incredibly much - I know that it’s logged somewhere and that I’m not going to forget it, which makes me feel like my sudden idea/urge to do the next thing isn’t as urgent) • set a 5-minute timer for the original task • kindly redirect yourself with: “not now, but later. I’ll get to it!” And if your guest bedroom sheets are still on the chair, it’s okay! I know you’ll make your way back to them :) #therapist #therapy #therapytok #adhd #therapists

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thesketchypumpkin
Sketchy Pumpkin :
Wouldn't have happened if he replaced that paper towel 😒
2026-06-23 16:05:19
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sbuck013
Shay :
“Usually the rain comes down in sheets….”
2026-06-22 18:57:38
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mjs_mn
Monica•Joy :
I thought for a second when you saw the airplane, you were gonna try to find out where they were going. I may have done that once or twice lol. 🤣
2026-06-22 18:48:20
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manicselkiedreamg
manicselkiedreamgirl :
This is Hal fixing a lightbulb on Malcolm in the Middle 😭
2026-06-22 18:05:44
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lezolution
Lezolution :
His next comment should have been, can I help?
2026-07-10 14:42:03
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chimptaco
...chimptaco? :
But why didn’t he say, “what can I help you with so we can both relax and watch the movie?”.
2026-06-24 18:11:15
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laxheart16
Breezy :
This is so relatable for me it’s unreal
2026-06-24 17:16:37
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sweetbeehasadhd
SweetBee :
Was expecting a variation of that one cold open from Malcolm in the middle, which is literally my daily life…. And you took it above and beyond my expectation. Thank you.
2026-06-24 14:36:18
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shouldbedoinghousework
shouldbedoinghousework :
Ping pong cleaning lol
2026-06-22 18:53:38
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lyndsanity_
✨lyndsay✨ :
Ugh, hate when this happens
2026-06-22 18:31:58
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justasimplemo
justasimplemo :
Me in home life, work life, social life. I’m always on an adventure you comin’ with me or what?!
2026-06-23 23:41:21
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dfybbv
dfybbv :
But why isn’t he helping
2026-06-24 17:18:58
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robinw2658
🌸 Robin 🐦 🕊 :
Me so much.
2026-06-29 19:37:47
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heeyyaleexx
alex :
I am screaming
2026-06-23 13:11:37
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adayinoneplace
ADayInOnePlace :
Ma’am. Stay out of my house and out of my head.😂😂😂😂😩
2026-06-23 17:42:03
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were7wolf
sam :
yet that man never said let me help you or did any of the other tasks that side quested you. 🙄
2026-06-24 13:46:17
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ceinwynrudnick
Ceinwyn Rudnick :
I'm SO HAPPY when I can just be like this. I have to be so dialed in for work and kids that wandering around chasing dopamine is like being in a fairy tale
2026-06-22 21:04:22
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h.lakers
h.lakers :
FELT
2026-06-22 19:51:38
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zombiedebbie
Debbie 🌙🖤✨ :
Ma’am 😂😂😂😂
2026-06-23 06:42:46
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vanilla.orchid
VanillaOrchid :
fr though lmfao ✌️😅✌️
2026-06-22 19:12:19
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the.together.table
Jessica :
Kerry Park is always a good side quest 😍😭
2026-06-22 18:14:34
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feraljournal
₊✩☽⋆𝓡𝓪𝓲𝓷𝓼𝓽𝓸𝓻𝓶⋆☾✩⁺ :
Ok you nailed it
2026-06-22 18:00:56
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monicaaaof
Monicaaa :
And it has to be done, RIGHT NOW
2026-06-23 15:06:19
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olafwaffles
Ty Ferguson :
girl same
2026-06-22 19:00:18
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yasssitsjessss
Jess 🪩✨ :
Fuck I forgot the laundry again.
2026-06-24 19:46:16
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