@_coachkyle: the mindset is EVERYTHING 👇 the way you perceive “opportunity” dictates your actions and most men are so focused on the REACTION.. so they never take the ACTION to begin with.. next time there’s an “uncomfortable step” see it as an OPPORTUNITY for growth AND MOVE TOWARDS IT I’ve had DOZENS of times that I WISH i took that step and those memories linger in my brain with regret.. but i’ve also NEVER regretted the times that I DID MAN TF UP & take that uncomfortable step.. everytime I did.. massive win.. huge confidence boost.. remember that next time you are faced with an “opportunity” LETS GO! #dating #datingadvice #confidence #socialskills #coldapproach