@scott.austin.martin: The goal is to catch the disconnection before you hit the wall. You have two different nervous systems seeing and feeling reality in two different ways. Your job is to see and feel what she sees and feels. "But I don't perceive reality the way she does." Can you down-regulate enough to get curious about how to? This isn't a compatibility issue. If your two nervous systems can become teammates, two people who experience reality completely differently become a power couple. Don't get caught up in the story that you're not meant for each other. Go do the work to down-regulate your triggers and somatically process what you've been carrying. Why? So your two nervous systems can actually stay in the room together. #relationships #relationshiptips #nervoussystem #menscoach

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