The leisure gap is so real and so important to think about!!! I’d DIE if my husband didn’t have the same idea of what a break is!!
2026-07-12 04:04:37
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Itsaaameeeee :
Also is he okay with having a gay child? Huge question
2026-07-14 16:02:48
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Alexis 🪐 :
This made me realize that IM not ready for kids so thank you!
2026-07-12 05:07:00
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Katie Kohn :
I know he'll be amazing, it's me I worry about. 😭😭😭
2026-07-11 01:02:49
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alyssduhh :
A family and not just kids is SUCH AN IMPORTANT distinction
2026-06-22 18:49:04
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Ferni🍉🍉 :
Neither of us want kids yet here I am going over the dang list with you lmao
2026-07-10 09:27:28
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emm.678 :
We are so lucky to live in a time where we can get advice like this off of complete strangers cause lord knows most of our parents needed this but didn’t have it
2026-07-13 03:30:46
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lisAHHHHH :
I wish I could download this or have a PDF of it to give to my teenage nieces
2026-07-10 18:01:13
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Martha’s Mom :
Literally girl, write a damn book. This is pure gold.
2026-07-14 21:01:07
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sweetsparroww :
Your no sugar coating approach with anything about mom life is such a BREATH OF FRESH AIR! Comparison is the thief of joy and everyone on here wants to appear perfect. Appreciate you Xoxo
2026-07-09 14:47:51
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Bailey :
This rational line of thinking absolutely needs to be shared
2026-07-10 13:49:46
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Sierra :
Shit, maybe IM not ready for kids 😭 my mans perfect but I need some work lol
2026-07-13 18:34:16
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Jenny Phelps :
As a mom of 3 and 3 bonus kids and on my second marriage, this is spot on. No notes.
2026-07-10 05:35:28
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Haley :
Everything about this YES and might I add that we as women need to remember having kids is a major medical event and one of the most traumatic things you’ll ever go through (not necessarily in a negative way) so only do it with a man that you would go through cancer or surgery or terminal illness with… because it is that serious for a number of reasons
2026-07-22 14:38:27
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brittney💙 :
Heavy on can he get a grip
2026-07-22 12:32:50
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Makayla Barlow :
Yeah I have to parent my own husband and I question my decision daily.
2026-08-11 17:06:37
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MJ :
This hair color looks SO GOOD on you!!
2026-06-25 01:24:27
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Mere :
lol I got pregnant 2 months into dating. We are now married and literally soulmates and he’s a perfect husband and dad can’t believe it actually worked out
2026-07-10 23:57:26
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ChelsG :
My husband and I were 19/20 when we started dating, got married at 24/25 and didnt have our one and only child until we were 31/32. 100% recommend. He is the best dad and husband and has loved every version of me.
2026-07-20 13:31:16
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MichelleAntoinette :
As a nanny, (who has worked closely with parents) I fully agree with this!
2026-07-11 16:04:25
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Courtanayyyy aMillli :
That part about your new family outranking your previous family you grew up with!! 👏🏼👏🏼
2026-08-04 19:48:29
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hellohaylobb :
Okay my husband sucks at being late or flexible and it stresses him out bad but istg I have 100%%% on all the other things.
2026-07-24 11:52:41
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Orchid Ricketts :
damn 😑😐😐 I said no to all of these, and our daughter is 2....yeah Im feeling everything you said to my core, sooooo yeah 😢
2026-07-22 07:28:11
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