@queen.of.aita: AITA for not helping my sister pay for her wedding even though I could easily afford it just because of a petty reason? #aita #reddit_tiktok #redditreading #redditstorytime #fypシ゚viral
my wedding cost me £1,200 and my best friend's wedding cost her £15,000 ect and said to me "I wish I had done this"
2026-07-12 12:51:36
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tatemommy :
her wedding, her bill to pay. it's not petty.
2026-06-23 17:11:45
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Kristina Henson :
If I didn’t spent a bunch of money on my own wedding I’m sure the hell not going to spend it on someone else’s
2026-06-23 06:09:57
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pat :
$25k should be more than enough for a one day party.
2026-06-23 05:48:51
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KemtheBetch :
I think it’s weird ,that siblings are paying for their siblings weddings ,if you can’t pay for the wedding yourself, you don’t have it or have the wedding you can afford.
2026-06-25 03:33:32
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igordelahoya :
Sorry but a wedding is not an emergency. It is just a party. Pay it by yourself
2026-06-26 09:16:25
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Crystal Rose :
Nooooo you're NTA. She can have the wedding she can afford
2026-06-23 13:12:33
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Besttimes1000 :
Noooooo don’t give her
2026-06-23 09:43:15
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Jess :
People should stay within their budget
2026-06-25 02:30:08
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Vivie :
I don't think that's petty. That's her money, and she has the right to decide what and who she wants to spend it on, regardless of what happened between op and her sister. That's her money, her right, her choice, her rule.
2026-06-23 11:22:21
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Julie Herniman Malli :
She can say whatever she likes but at the end of the day you have $20000 dollars in your bank your not petty you’re smart
2026-06-24 04:47:02
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Lebs :
Absolutely NTA😄
2026-06-23 11:58:59
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OrigamiTiger :
25K is a massive amount for a wedding.
2026-06-25 05:51:22
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valeriethompson1171 :
NTA. Your bank account is none of their business. Sis needs to live within her means.
2026-06-23 09:28:46
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🇺🇸🇺🇸 nana1999🇺🇸🇺🇸 :
No dont don’t do it. I wouldn’t do it. Don’t give her a penny. It’s not your problem. Don’t award bad behavior. If you don’t have money for whatever,, DONT DO IT. NTA
2026-06-23 05:19:15
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Nope :
I've been married twice, still going strong with number 2. But both weddings were under 5k, plenty of people there and at venues. So can't even fathom a $25,000 wedding!
2026-06-24 00:06:30
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AmyK1723 :
not the A hole! she have asked you before she gave the vendors deposits assuming that you would help! A hard NO! you could of had a bigger wedding, but you and your hubby were smart with your money
2026-06-23 00:53:41
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Alexandra Smith :
I never understand why people expect someone else to pay for the wedding that they want...can't afford what you want...save up
2026-07-12 12:54:44
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Luxuriouslocs :
because I'm trashy and cheap
2026-06-23 18:35:12
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kittymittenspewpew :
NTA... her issues is not your problem
2026-06-24 04:54:19
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cassandraamilie :
NTA! I don’t see how weddings need to be so large when it’s one day and dear I say a piece of paper.. 😳
2026-06-25 05:56:56
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Diana :
not the ahole. your not obliged to pay for her. and if family wants you to pay then they pay more. your money is your money.
2026-06-22 20:45:25
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Trace🎀 :
Where is her fiance and what is he paying for, you should be able to pay for a wedding with the 25k you got
2026-06-24 11:35:21
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Sweet Marie :
Oh hell no! She could have a wedding within her means.not asking you for money you were given as a gift and saved
2026-06-30 11:39:24
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A1L2E33N :
most definetley not the ah!
2026-06-25 18:49:12
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