@haleykloha: The media romanticizes abusive and coercively controlling relationships AND part of how it does that is my punishing characters for leaving or the relationships ending. #coercivecontrol #abuse #domesricabuseawareness #education #dv

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pumpkinjewel64
Pumpkinjewel :
Ross and Rachel
2026-06-23 08:34:52
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drkristinkirkland
dr.kristinkirkland :
Aaah yes thank you for pointing this out, especially about The Notebook, which (as a survivor myself) has always given me a huge ick!
2026-06-22 22:15:30
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francescaventioux
Francesca :
Your content is safety 🥰
2026-06-22 23:25:53
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magikalmads
Mads | The Sophia Perspective :
love this series 🤍🌸🐉
2026-06-22 21:19:18
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sfvegan7
SFVegan :
Thanks for this important perspective that gives me much to reconsider.
2026-06-23 02:59:50
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ronda.hettinger
Ronda Hettinger :
100% spot on.
2026-06-23 17:04:15
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facelesstherapist
Therapy with me :
Pretty woman
2026-06-24 03:50:19
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pris_west
Pris West :
Not to mention how twilight and other vampire media romanticize the idea of a (MUCH) older men and teen girls
2026-06-22 23:56:06
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thetulafae
Tula Fae :
Titanic too
2026-06-22 21:43:19
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appleuser82375555
appleuser82375555 :
This is actually eye opening wide. Seeing it in this lenses makes lots of sense oin programming people by society.
2026-06-22 23:09:47
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thedvsurvivor
Elissa|DV Survivor Advocate :
Do you think it’s a lack of awareness of what is actually healthy? I believe we’re all being groomed for capitalism, sure. But there’s also a huge lack in prevention and understanding.
2026-06-23 14:58:33
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cassie.b.86
Cassie🦋🏳️‍🌈🍉 :
I think greys anatomy got better after Derek died. I think her character was much more powerful without him.
2026-06-23 13:35:21
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bopperella
Ellie :
Are there any healthy romance movies? Is that just “too boring” for most people?
2026-06-23 00:45:18
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magikalmads
Mads | The Sophia Perspective :
i also notice this on tiktok too in certain niche groups!!!
2026-06-22 21:18:32
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allhail_abigail
allhail_Abigail :
Staying through chaos is devotion 🤯
2026-06-23 16:52:19
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thetulafae
Tula Fae :
Requirm for a Dream too
2026-06-22 21:43:44
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thelongbox
Mike H :
This is also partly a massive media literacy problem. Story tellers are supposed to show drama, that’s the job. The characters in stories are not meant to be examples of how to be human.
2026-06-23 21:11:45
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rongplaceright
rongplaceright :
We ask - what if I missed my Prince it’s a disaster! Instead of oh my goodness, I could’ve made a huge mistake there and I built my life and it’s great
2026-06-23 00:14:19
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huesyourgranny
Ember :
and how quickly every escalates! that's NOT normal!
2026-06-23 01:08:39
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samz.yoda.vader
SamZ :
Also, when you are a child whom is living in an environment of DV it distorts what love, respect, healthy relationships, safe boundaries, etc. is suppose to look like. For girls going into the dating scene it makes them more vulnerable to enter a relationship with DV and making it even harder for us to even identify it during or even after post separation. It took me approximately five years post separation to identify DV and SA.
2026-06-24 18:40:09
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kasmoskai
Kasmos :
Oh... That explains why I was getting the ick. 😅
2026-06-22 23:41:49
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julie.wondergem
Julie Wondergem :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-06-23 13:59:26
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thewoundedhealer_maria
Maria Hinton | Trauma Educator :
💯💯💯
2026-06-23 22:48:59
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isabel.isabel.13
Isabel :
💯
2026-06-23 15:57:22
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kamcdv
kamcdv :
I remember when I started noticing the conditioning. Anytime a leading male character is violent, even sadistically violent as long as it’s towards a bad guy it’s okay and don’t worry he’s a good guy he’d never use violence against you. I was watching something and I stopped and was like, no that doesn’t track. That guy is an abuser.
2026-06-22 22:27:24
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