They say it releases oxytocin and I am still trying to figure out when
2026-06-23 03:23:24
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Kendra Kizziah :
Girl. You can stop. She will be fine: you will be fine.
2026-06-22 22:04:15
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Britt | Boy Mom, ACAB :
you can dislike breastfeeding and still feel the urge to continue 💙
2026-06-23 12:15:45
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RaisingOlympians :
My pediatrician told me point blank that if I could line up the graduating class from Harvard and pick out which ones were breastfed and which had formula, she’d turn in her medical license. I bought formula on the way home.
2026-06-23 01:59:42
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Allie Leigh 🤗 :
Formula feeding saved my mental health. I still had a beautiful experience with my daughter
2026-06-23 00:20:21
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lizard956 :
Every month is easier. I bf to 18 months both kids. It’s not like nursing a baby for 18 months. Just 3 months, 5 months, 7 months (a month into baby food) totally different. And it takes so long to wean. Quit if you want, but I understand not wanting to
2026-07-15 18:20:22
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S. Coleman King :
Stahhhhp! Breastfeeding is not fun, some people might think so, I think someone along the line says it’s our job to do it cause men can’t, I don’t know but I agree - I’m fine with pumping and letting my partner help feed
2026-07-15 21:30:32
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katieK0831 :
Just keep talking about it. Don’t hold anything in. ❤️
2026-07-15 17:13:42
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Momma Marie ✨ :
Breastfeeding actually sucks. Let’s be so real right now. If you decide to switch to pumping or formula do not feel bad. It really shouldn’t be controversial to say you don’t like something. I look back at my post partum journey and I get so sad bc I absolutely hated breast feeding/and pumping and it ruined it for me. I wish I would have stopped earlier (I went 9 months) because it ruined the memory of my daughter being a baby.
2026-06-22 22:17:59
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Liz :
The way I thought about it was.... would I be a better mom and woman if I started formula feeding and I was. Sure BM has a ton of benefits but prioritizing my mental health benefited my family so much more
2026-07-15 00:41:14
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lacey.bieniek :
You can stop though. Seriously. If it’s affecting your mental health, it’s ok to stop and formula feed. Fed is best. No matter which way you decide to feed her ❤️
2026-07-14 18:50:23
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MrsFozzy :
Fed is best. Do what is best for you.
2026-06-23 02:13:05
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allie guité :
Unpopular opinion that should not be unpopular: you have to do what makes YOU feel better. A happy, healthy, mom with a full cup is what leads to a happy and healthy baby. Fed is best. Fed is amazing. Happy mom is best.
2026-06-22 21:58:37
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Jazmine Warren :
I hated breastfeeding so much. it was so bad for my mental health. my postpartum depression got better when I went to pumping and my husband would give our children formula at night time if I couldn't produce enough milk which eventually happened. I couldn't produce nothing to go to formula, but mentally I was a better person
2026-07-15 22:22:13
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dred482 :
your mental health is equally important and is beautiful in its own right.
2026-06-22 22:00:54
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Gina Harrison :
As an IBCLC...please if you dont enjoy breastfeeding, stop. Dont do it any longer. If exclusively pumping is better for you, please do that. If weaning is best for you, please do it! Dont feel guilty, youre doing whats best for you. Please look out for yourself. Sometimes breastfeeding ISNT beautiful!
2026-06-23 03:06:46
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Andi :
That’s not controversial. I couldn’t. My mental health could not handle it. I hate the stigma behind formula. I switched to pumping and formula. I was happy. She was happy. You do what’s best for you and your baby.
2026-06-23 01:11:06
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J.TT.acct :
You can stop. I hated it so I stopped and our lives got so much better.
2026-06-22 23:46:58
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Misty Dawn Young :
It will be fine if you stop. I hated sitting forever. I just could not. :(
2026-06-23 13:00:49
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Michelle :
what would you tell your daughters if they were in your shoes? i know it’s a hard mental decision but be gentle with yourself and remember you can’t take care of your baby unless you take care of yourself first. you know yourself best and anything you decide will be the right decision, just remember that you matter too 🩷
2026-06-22 23:58:19
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kalison311 :
I don’t think this is controversial at all. I HATED breastfeeding and pumping. My child is 14. Smart as hell. Beautiful. Healthy. And thriving. Fed is best.
2026-06-23 01:18:22
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ky.danielle_ :
Not controversial at all. 100% agree
2026-06-22 22:36:03
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ashkarn :
Not to toot my own horn 😂 but I never had a drop of breast milk and I’m an attorney who had a full ride to law school, married to the best human, and have no serious health issues (knock on wood!) - absolutely nothing wrong with giving your baby formula because fed really is best!! Whatever makes you the happiest mom with the fullest cup will be the right thing for your baby ♥️
2026-06-23 00:16:12
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chan :
i will say after 3 months it actually does become easier. the anxiety calms down baby learns how to be more efficient and it starts to be a beautiful experience. but that 0-3m timeline is miserable lmao
2026-06-22 22:01:21
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Lys :
Girl I didn’t even try cause I KNEW I’d be overstimulated and have anxiety through the roof. My son had formula from the jump and he’s fine.
2026-06-22 23:13:29
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