@loudly.leo: I wish little 16 year old me had been told this ❤️‍🩹 #relationships #domesticviolence #survivor #patriarchy #healing

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karmicvortex
Karmic Vortex :
Healthy love doesn’t hurt! I love it
2026-06-23 03:15:43
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menjasla
Jasmin Red :
Needed to hear this. Thanks✌
2026-06-23 09:50:09
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dizzyizzyarts
dizzyizzyart :
thank you for saying the quiet part out loud
2026-08-11 19:51:14
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heathergrubermusic
Heather Gruber :
Thank you for talking about this!!
2026-06-23 00:46:35
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kirstiethirst
Kirstie X :
I’m so sorry you went through this, your videos are so helpful
2026-06-23 20:56:33
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evelyn.joy8
Evelyn Joy ✝️ 🦋🌻 :
hugs
2026-06-23 11:23:37
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sarah_seeandersen
Sarah Andersen :
I was stunned when I learned that the most consistent predictor of intimate partner homicide is not prior physical abuse—It is coercive control. We really need a big societal reeducation about what abuse is so that more women can recognize it.
2026-06-22 23:34:33
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buildingmyselfupbaddie
FrenchFry9840 :
not trying to be ageism or anything, but this is literally why those of us in our 30s SCREAM warnings to the younger generation at the top of our lungs. it comes from our own experience, we are trying to help! even though I 100% understand being young and thinking I had ir figured out too.... ugh 🤷‍♀️😭
2026-06-23 06:14:18
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smokenmirrorrs
Smoke’nMirrors :
Took me a while to figure out coercion with mental abuse is sa
2026-06-23 02:55:11
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moxie_lake
MoxieLake🏳️‍🌈 :
It took me a decade to figure it out and eight more to leave.
2026-06-22 23:19:27
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courtclarebsls
courtclare, bsls 🆘🇺🇸 :
When I escaped my abuser I learned that threats and intimidation is physical abuse
2026-06-23 00:10:02
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nancywho123
Nancy Who :
Thank you! I am 10 years out of a 20 year abusive marriage. 4 kids. Still unpacking. I am with an amazing man now and I leant everyday what real love is.
2026-06-23 02:01:51
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cosmickristen
CosmicKristen :
My abusive ex never hit me while we were together but when I left it got physical and I had to get a restraining order. The idea that abuse has to physical has to stop, abuse is abuse.
2026-07-05 17:35:41
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sapphicsapphy
Sapphire :
Emotional/mental abuse is definitely violence and I wish that we talked about it more. It harms your brain and body in so many ways
2026-06-23 17:24:16
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nadyagracee
Nadya :
Naming the abuse and realizing it WAS abuse is what helped me leave for the final time. I spent so long thinking it was normal and that I was even the abusive one.
2026-06-23 23:23:49
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cassafra5
Cassafra5 :
It’s been almost 7 years since I left my abusive ex and I’m still finding different forms of abuse I had gone through because it had become so normal to me in that relationship. I relate to having a warped sense of reality and sense of self
2026-06-23 03:12:48
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livinthedogmomlife
livinthedogmomlife :
He couldn’t handle that I went to see a friend from college without him. He could not handle that I didn’t want to share my location despite the fact I told him I was 2 blocks away with one of my closest friend. That’s where it clicked. A friend who knew me so long but wasn’t there for a while said she never thought I’d let a man do that to me. She reminded me of my power. I needed to push him out.
2026-06-23 02:40:28
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lubispensieve
Lubna Sayed🤲🏼لبنیٰ سید :
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏼🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
2026-06-23 13:19:50
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