YES. I did this last year. My husband watching me chase my dreams decided to finally go after his dream job and HE GOT IT. He completely changed careers and is living his best life. Our marriage is 100% better too
2026-06-25 02:00:05
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monica :
I think it may be because (at least in part), you returned to the woman he fell in love with.
2026-06-24 12:58:18
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DomesticGoddess👑 :
Agree!! Focusing on myself has made the family happier too! 💕
2026-06-23 00:40:55
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heyjaimefish :
I had this EXACT SAME realization. All the efforts I made to see him, and be there for him never made his life better. And I realized he almost never did the same consideration of me. It was one sided. When I stopped, and started taking care of myself. Everything got better
2026-06-23 01:11:56
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monlovesthebay :
The minute I centered myself I knew the marriage was over . So glad it’s over .
2026-06-24 23:51:14
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MalzTapp🇨🇦 :
After exiting a 5+ year relationship, after a year of just healing I'm genuinely so much happier single. IT IS SO UNDERRATED! I get to spend more time on myself, my hobbies, my work, my friends without always having to priorititize her happiness over my own.
2026-06-24 06:16:56
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Julie Scott :
Yes. I did the same thing. I have been divorced for 17 years now
2026-06-24 01:12:59
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Katrina the dj :
what makes us decentred
2026-06-23 06:01:44
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Alexis :
Why do you think this has resulted in him being happier?
2026-06-23 12:07:57
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International DEJ :
Sprinkle sprinkle!
2026-06-23 05:17:07
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Kristen :
Great post 🥰
2026-06-23 00:35:16
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jack :
I love this series and how you explain these very abstract (to me) ideas!
2026-06-24 02:12:35
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user546661885731 :
I have no idea the woman I’ve become
2026-06-23 22:07:16
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Sam :
I've seen a few women creators say focus on yourself, make yourself happy, prioritize yourself, and make yourself his priority. i can't remember the quote exactly but i think it holds
2026-06-23 09:55:11
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deb_scot :
Nm, got the end - sorry ! I am glad you’re in a better place for yourself! 🥰
2026-06-25 01:16:05
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FernHill :
Brilliant 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
2026-06-23 16:01:58
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Alli :
I get so excited when a new episode pops up 😂🥰
2026-06-24 07:44:28
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Sophie00 :
Mine is the opposite. My husband was very happy! Only because I praised him, supported him & did everything for him. 10 years ago I stop & did exactly what you did. I'm so much happier. To this day, he still doesn't understand what happened. He asked me where did the person I married go? I said, she died and is never coming back.
2026-06-23 14:43:54
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hope_peddler :
This is so incredibly important. When women take responsibility for their partner’s happiness, both of them end up unhappy. I’m so happy for you
2026-06-23 01:02:25
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📚Stephanie📚 :
I love this series and I really love hearing about how this change not only benefitted you, but also him. I think it probably took him a lot of self awareness and inner work to allow this change to happen in HIM. Some men would never do the work to grow stronger for their wife or their marriage so I commend you both!
2026-06-23 00:08:41
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Dedee4740 :
Yes I turne myself inside out doing everything for my husband and children. I remember thinking I don't even know who I am anymore. It was exhausting and overwhelming. When I became single it was such a relief to not have to serve a selfish man.
2026-06-23 02:19:33
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Monica Wylie :
This particularly sounds like what I did for my now ex husband. I did everything to make him happy and he was t. I also took care of my two children. My knowing he’s alone knowing he is responsible for his own happiness is a bit gratifying.
2026-06-23 02:36:30
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