@thesignaldating: #datingtipsformen #datingadviceformen

AM :

I think every person deserves CLARITY. And its‘s not on the anxious person. Maybe the problem is the other person who isn‘t mature enough to COMMUNICATE.

Hana :

Is it too hard to communicate to the anxious man or woman? Why withhold clarity?

𝓕𝓻𝓪𝓷𝓬𝓲🐢 :

Too late, I already destroyed our connection. I lost him

root∞ :

I’ve been doing this my whole life. I’m 35 and I’m still struggling with it. The worst thing is, I automatically assume silence and ambiguity means abandonment and rejection. It’s so exhausting. Because even when I don’t want to, I react to it in an OTT way. And then what I say, the narrative I tell myself becomes the enemy.

iri S♡PHS :

Coach 🥺

pamasit74 :

You’re loving someone? You show it. You care for someone? You show it. You don’t put the other through hell by displaying weird patterns , that shall be received as normal. Yes , you don’t shoot the relationship immediately, but this behavior shouldn’t last a lifetime. Oh please. Be clear or at least vanish.

ralph :

I hate that this hits me so hard. thanks for the clarity

ejmharris :

Just found your content today after a pretty awful night of storytelling to myself overnight. It’s crazy what I make up. In a long distance relationship and my anxious attachment is getting so much worse.

missnikkixo :

I do this a lot😔

ms_a_n_a_ 🫧 :

Gosh, you’re a week to late 😞

PaulieWalnuts :

I’m working on this right now. Omg it’s so hard!! Lost an absolutely gorgeous girl through it. She was on control of my emotions and started getting distant very quickly. I overwhelmed her and didn’t give her the space she needed. But her communication style made me spiral. Telling me she was unwell and no energy to see me but going out with a “friend” then when pushed saying oh it was Loraine we did blah blah blah…… I couldn’t see past her vagueness unless pushed.

Hege Dyveke Solvoll :

I found someone who understand this and helps clarify, he has insecure attachment as well, and we have now a quite secure warm relationship. We take full responsibility for our own feelings, but, it’s impossible to heal on your own what was broken in relation to others

pia :

i always do this as well ☹️

Glass of water :

Thank you so much mate, really really needed this right now

Kaleb :

Self talk is so important man. It really helps.

society_secrets :

first time im early🥰🥰🥰

Cori :

so‍oo ma‍ny peo‍ple tal‍king ab‍out th‍at ve‍ra ha‍rt arch‍etype qu‍iz i‍ts cra‍zy, lo‍l. Tr‍ied it mys‍elf a‍nd t‍he res‍ults ha‍ve be‍en overwhe‍lmingly promi‍sing.

Denise Gaines :

Real talk 💜

BeeKakwanzi :

Coach

Tims#1Fangirl :

Coach

OBCA :

faktycznie to jest prawda

EmLou_123 :

Described me to a T

🫟𝓝𝓪𝓫𝓲 🫟 :

David :

I thought this was a gift. I’m amazing at it 😂😂. I’ve given up, a narc destroyed me, just going to live in peace alone 😂😂

Super Mon :

Wow