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leonlety :
No this happened to me last December and I sent him that message. He apologized as he should have and I left it at that. They need to know they can’t do that- we are human
2026-06-23 01:42:04
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Louisa :
Don’t text! It will only be a huge disappointment no matter what happens. Your words will fall on deaf ears. He wants you to do this. Respect yourself. 🌸🩷
2026-06-23 01:42:52
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legallybee🫶🏼 :
Don’t do it. He’s obviously not who you thought he was, and that is why whatever you have to say isn’t going to change him. He will most likely either not get it or not respond and then THAT will be a whole separate anxiety roller coaster. Trust me, girl. Been there. PLEASE benefit from my poor choices🫠😂🫶🏼
2026-06-24 19:36:58
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QuitaDigital | Calm Generator :
Don’t do it. He will reach out since you didn’t chase. Don’t do it girl 🩵🩵
2026-06-23 05:16:31
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meow meow :
I did the exact thing almost word for word. He never replied. It felt like I “closed the loop” and walked away giving myself closure but it was so messed up on his end and it left me feeling worse
2026-06-24 07:09:21
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doingwrk :
I watch a show called shrinking…it had taught me a lot about dealing with my personal feelings alone…they have a scene where they write letters saying all the things they want to say without sending it…this has taught me a lot about externalizing my feelings and how much that helps…you sharing this here will help
2026-06-23 22:45:04
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Katie Coleman :
How would you feel if he doesn’t respond? What are you hoping for by sending that message?
2026-06-23 03:40:32
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Kimberlee :
Write a letter and don't send it believe it or not, that's very healing and it gets the feelings out
2026-06-24 02:06:16
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Ang. :
Maybe type it out but Don’t send it.. I think you’re setting yourself up for more disappointment. I’m sorry that happened to you!
2026-06-23 02:08:25
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CarmonCowan :
Don’t do it. Respect yourself enough to walk away, it won’t do any good to say this and could justify them ghosting you. Journal about it and hold your head high.
2026-06-23 01:44:29
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ninjaginja18 :
I think it’s pretty normal to care about that. It means you are able to feel your feelings. That’s a good thing. Send the text if you want! Idk if it will make you feel better or not-I don’t think he will make you feel better, but it might help to speak ur piece.
2026-06-23 01:46:10
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lvndrmoon8 :
What advice? Girl, next!!!
2026-06-23 03:44:44
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Nicole Harrington :
If you have to say it .. DONT! LIVE LEARN AND MOVE ON!!! LIFE IS A LESSON..WE LEARN OR REPEAT THE MISTAKE .. DONT REPEAT THIS ONE🥰
2026-06-23 03:03:46
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dianne andresen :
Nope. Do not!!!
2026-06-23 01:57:58
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Leslie Hart :
Don’t do it. It won’t change anything and it gives away your power. He has shown you who he is. Move on. I’ve been through it and I know how you feel but the best way to respect yourself is to recognize your own value and not give access to someone who doesn’t deserve it. Sorry this happened 😕
2026-06-25 01:24:49
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Lilly c :
DONT TEXT
2026-06-24 00:10:43
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José Alberto :
Protect your peace. Their actions spoke for themselves. By messaging them you will give them the satisfaction of knowing that they hurt you
2026-06-23 01:03:19
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Jess :
Don’t blame yourself. A man who wants something real doesn’t suddenly lose respect because intimacy happened. And a man who was going to disappear would’ve probably disappeared regardless. His character determined his actions, not your timing. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with sending a message if you feel it’s best for your healing journey, but I think you need to be okay with every possible outcome.. including no response at all which will be likely. And is that going to make you feel worse? If so, don’t say anything. He knows what he did and unfortunately doesn’t seem to care. That’s on him. I think sometimes we want one final conversation because we want the ending to match the connection we thought we had. But not everyone gives us endings that make sense. Side note.. you are gorgeous and he fumbled big time. I hope you find the love you deserve ❤️
2026-06-23 01:15:12
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Allie Ellis :
I am always curious why we are told not to communicate just because the other person is shitty. Its so shitty when this happens. Its hurtful and its rude. Like grow up sir. I have terrible luck with men but at this point DO what is going to make YOU feel okay and what will make You be able to move on. What do you have to lose at this point. Say your peace.
2026-06-23 02:59:39
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Maria Lisa :
Trust me, don’t do it don’t send anything. I’ve been in your shoes… that is so disrespectful on his part and it feels horrible and you’re going to think about it every day you’re gonna cry you’re gonna get angry. You’re gonna feel empowered and tell yourself I’m going to tell him off, and you probably want an explanation or perhaps an apology but don’t send that message. Trust me do everything and anything you have to do but do not contact him.
2026-06-23 03:48:00
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Nicole :
From another woman who tried to teach a man how to treat me for 3 years. Don’t text him. And believe me I do understand because I have been there. But you are better off just moving on from a grown man who would now need you to tell him how to treat you. If he doesn’t know, he doesn’t deserve you. Period. 🥰
2026-06-23 03:11:55
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Michele :
usually I would say do not text but. I think u make a good argument for not letting him off the hook. ur saying to him "u behaved like a child and I see you". but the other part of me thinks, what do u hope to accomplish? is it purely to defend ur dignity? I wish we could chat about this!!!
2026-06-23 04:06:47
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sara :
I've always sent this text. happened to me twice this year. my friends always tell me not to. but I feel the same as you, like nobody's gonna treat me like that and not at least hear from me about it. if we just say nothing, they're getting exactly what they want - no consequence. they will at least deal with my disgust
2026-06-23 01:02:11
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oliviasjay :
Trust me. Do not reach out. Ever. You will thank yourself after a few weeks.
2026-06-23 03:18:35
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user8401021423678 :
Unfortunately, ghosting is common and also immature and inconsiderate. Feel the feels, then delete, block, and get back out there. Sorry you dated a jerk, but there's a great guy out there waiting for you!
2026-06-23 02:31:42
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