@the_control_code: “Staying neutral” between an abuser and the person they abuse is neither fairness nor equality It’s free labor for them. #coercivecontrol #narcissisticabuse #thecontrolcode #coparenting #postseparationabuse

gabby💕PrincessOftheO :

I feel like my friend does this every time I tell her what I’m going through

Daisy Darling :

Tell that to ChatGpt who always tries too hard to be "objective" it sounds drunk

(Phoenix, B*tch.) :

Reactive abuse is often used to shift blame. Equating the two is gaslighting. Trust your reality; you are not the problem.

VeraCITY_NYC :

Me, it's ME who said it, too.

micha_belle_ :

Right! Who said that?!! Hmm

anthonycutt :

Agree with all of that but also, FIFA said you're sent off.

savwithoutanh :

Ugh everyone I thought would help me. They all think they are so mature and leading the way with integrity as if I need to learn integrity and take the higher road.

FeyLabourTheory :

Alison :

And then those same people you are describing want your sympathy and care. That’s the icing on the cake of their logic.

𝓐𝓵𝓮𝔁𝔂𝓼 :

It's worse when they label the victim as the abuser. Seen that too many times.

Around the World With Ash :

*cough cough* the police

Someone :

!!!!!!!!!!! THIS 👑

Poxxi :

Fundamental attribution error

ericamomsimpson :

A smart woman man said it 💪

diamond_princess8 :

🖤🖤🖤

Bridge May Sky :

💯💯💯

rawanabdelkader66 :

Talk to @@HARRY~FiXS

Shank Shark :

❤️💕

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Faye Tality :

Yes!!! THANK YOU! I was actually expected to be morally higher and able to control my abuser (who was extremely violent) by everyone around that now I isolated myself completely. I will not be disparage for defending myself while being strangled