it’s never about big things, it’s about the tiniest little things..
2026-07-23 18:47:43
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🐦⬛ Raven :
Me and my man are always happy with cheap easy foods. fancy restaurants are a waste of money and it's boring 😭. I love drive up diners.
2026-08-08 19:36:58
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Katherine Herrera :
Potential doesn’t build a future—putting in the work does.
It’s not about seeing someone’s potential. It’s about seeing their drive, their discipline, and their willingness to wake up every day and put in the work. No excuses. Consistency will always matter more than potential.
2026-07-24 05:21:34
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C :
After being married to an almost 40 year old trying to get his shit together, him becoming complacent while I paid bills, all for him to cheat on me- I don’t date for potential especially if you’ve been an adult for longer than you were a child
2026-07-23 19:23:23
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lani :p :
Yes of course i understand that but i had to tell him that we aren’t 20 anymore we’re abt to be 24 and i can’t keep putting my life on pause just to help him with his life. Now my standards is someone who already has their life and career established bc i can’t with the instability anymore especially as we reach our mid to late 20s
2026-07-23 15:55:10
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franmerieeV :
THATS WHAT I WAS TELLING HIM OVER AND OVER AGAIN… he wanted to do it on his own but still have access to me.
2026-07-23 11:48:52
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Shyann Castro :
Stayed with him for 4 years, let him use my savings to help with his business. Stayed by his side hoping he would one day want better for himself and for us and nothing changed. He couldn’t even give me his time to hangout with me. I’m good off of this now lol
2026-07-23 15:14:01
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frnrsyaaa :
to my dearest adam, if you seeing this, i just want you to know that no matter how hard the situation gets, you will always be in my prayers. maybe someday things will be tough, or even filled with happiness. just know that i will always be here, walking through this journey with you until we make it. i believe that Allah will grant all of your doas. may Allah ease everything for us.
2026-07-05 18:06:01
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Britney :
I get that this saying can often be used in the wrong circumstances. But it is a saying reserved for men that consistently give you the bare minimum, not always materialistically, but often emotionally. You can have a man that’s getting himself together, while also making it a point to consider you through kind gestures as much as possible. You can also have a man that isn’t inherently awful, but also makes you feel uncared for and unseen at the same time. Grace is given where it is earned, and that is reserved for those that show us that regardless of their status in life, they treat you with the love and respect you deserve. And that’s where we complete that saying with “if they won’t, someone else will”.
2026-07-23 19:46:20
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Taylor :
I love this perspective
2026-07-23 15:59:04
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jayson :
genuinely curious, no malicious intent here… so how fair is it for someone to lets say, FEEL like they are at their best or maybe at their highest point of success.. who is stay thats the actual version you are giving someone else? i can be in a relationship and think okay i am at my absolute best in my eyes, but how do other eyes see you at that moment? do they see and know you are at your best, do they think the opposite? idk its weird for me because not everyone sees you the same way you see yourself for good or bad.. so because you FEEL you treat that person AMAZING, does that person truly see it as amazing?? like its a one street for either party
2026-07-24 02:12:18
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Shika_🪷 :
Even if ntg changed for the past 4 yrs? Not even his attitude?
2026-07-08 11:22:38
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B :
Im sorry for all the women who didnt get men that valued them, im glad yall walked out. This is why i tell my friends to never wait more than 2yrs for an engagement ring! They know what they want and if its not you. He will do it for another in less than 6 months.
2026-07-23 21:11:21
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Jess Auslander :
If he can’t now, don’t waste my time 🤷🏻♀️
2026-07-23 21:33:33
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Fay🖤🥀…. :
Or better yet give him everything too it should be equal grow together
2026-07-23 19:22:11
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isa.esthie :
It’s not just about finances… it’s simple things like if he wanted to text you back, if he wanted to see you. If he wanted to take initiative….
2026-07-23 18:37:39
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.srinz :
oh i wishhh
2026-07-02 17:11:33
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Raquel :
Been married for over two years now and we got married at 18. All we do is grow together, and figure life out with one another. I do wholeheartedly believe we’ve grown that much closer bc of it.
2026-07-23 18:25:45
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Johanna 🍒 :
Helll no I left my bf of 7 years Im good
2026-07-24 21:19:13
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maan :
semoga dilemma semuanyaaaa 🫡🫡
2026-07-27 06:42:54
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jocelyne🦇 :
im here being patient but hes just so angry all the time..
2026-08-04 18:12:15
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lnnaxx0713 :
this but i also just want hand written letters man 🥲
2026-08-06 06:18:24
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Mac Fahrin Ashraff :
well said.. together achieving goal is the best ever commitment in life. 🥰
2026-07-09 23:06:09
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Savannah :
All I’m asking for is communication while he does it
2026-08-06 22:50:48
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