@thepsychologydropout: Every adult is carrying a blueprint they built in childhood. According to Chase Hughes, human behavior is often shaped by three core questions we unconsciously answered when we were young: 🔺 How did I earn friends? 🔺 How did I gain rewards and recognition? 🔺 What did I do to stay safe? These patterns become our default strategies for relationships, conflict, leadership, communication, and decision-making long after childhood ends. The Childhood Development Triangle reveals why people react the way they do, where their behaviors originate, and how those early adaptations continue to influence adulthood. In the Behavior Ops Manual (BOM), Chase Hughes breaks down this framework in detail and explains how to identify your own childhood programming, understand others more deeply, and overcome the patterns that no longer serve you. Understanding behavior isn’t about judging people—it’s about discovering the hidden rules they’ve been following since childhood. #BookTok #ChaseHughes #HumanBehavior #PersonalDevelopment

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lindawilliams561 :

Sometimes SAFETY was the REWARD.

2026-06-25 03:19:21

Tifanie the Diamond :

I couldn't or just didn't think about earning friends. I stood alone and still do. I guess that proves your point.

2026-06-23 17:52:04

Moni :

this makes perfect sense. 🤯 I'm literally working myself through this..

2026-06-23 21:13:59

msmaris333 :

How is it that I was sooo shy, reserved, sweet at that age, but I feel like I have been so taken advantage of throughout so many different ppl in my life that now I use anger and rage, as defenses! I know I’m doing it and I don’t feel bad because it is keeping me safe, buuut as a child I was soo different 🤷🏻‍♀️

2026-06-24 23:14:54

Mari :

At this time between 8 and 9I detested teachers that tried to make me their pet. Because I never wanted to be the favorite. I just wanted to blend in and I wanted everybody to feel the same attention

2026-06-23 14:20:46

STARFIRE28 :

Weird because i would go alone color and as an adult when i feel stressed i want to color

2026-07-09 02:07:50

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