gracen.evie :
Married for almost 3 years now, and we’ve been together for almost 12 years. Noon, hindi ko talaga gets yung sinasabi nilang “love your partner in every season.” Parang, may magbabago ba talaga? Looking back, ang dami palang nagbago. We started dating when we were young and wala pa kaming pera. Then nagkaroon ng work, nag-iba ang priorities, nag-mature, at nagkaroon ng iba’t ibang ways of handling problems, which sometimes led to arguments. Tapos ngayon, married na kami and may baby na. Things really changed, but not in a bad way. Iba na yung maturity namin. Iba na rin minsan yung definition namin ng happiness. The things that matter to us now are different from before. Pero doon ko na-realize what it really means to love your partner in every season. Hindi pala ibig sabihin nun na mahal mo lang sila kapag masaya, kapag okay ang lahat, o kapag pareho pa rin kayo ng taong nakilala ninyo noon. Love is not just a feeling. It’s a choice. A principle. As years go by, physical appearance changes, perspectives change, dreams change, and life itself changes. But as long as you’re both growing in a healthy way and not hurting each other, you choose to stay, understand, adjust, and endure. Kasi in a long-term relationship, you’re not just loving one version of your partner. You’re loving every version of them as they grow, and allowing them to love every version of you too. 🫶
2026-06-24 00:23:10