@loveletters_bylori: Avoidants don’t always love the way you love. Pay attention to the signs, but don’t ignore your own needs either. Love matters. Consistency matters too. And if your needs are constantly going unmet, you’re allowed to choose yourself. What’s one sign you’ve noticed? #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachmenttheory #relationshipadvice #datingandrelationships #coachlori

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jenav86
jena :
Mine doesn’t give af about me
2026-06-23 14:45:48
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msdianamd
DIANA MD :
"Hi Coach, I've been learning a lot from your content. I came across the idea that if an avoidant partner complies with our requests or does what we ask, it’s a strong indicator that they genuinely love us. In your experience, is this compliance a definitive sign of affection, or could it be driven by something else, like fear of conflict? I'd appreciate your perspective on this. Thanks!"
2026-06-26 09:19:41
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ssouz_yyysh
Ssouz_yyy✩ :
The avoidant i am with, i told him thousand times “don’t leave my messages on delivered i feel ignored” and still he’s doing it again and again. Should i quit him! Cuz im really tired of this i need opinions y’all.
2026-06-27 09:33:44
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shookbyshaky
shookbyshaky :
Started off with we then I start noticing I a lot
2026-06-23 17:48:58
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josieisrael14
Josie Israel :
He told me a lot of things about his childhood and his mother and how he was grounded a lot when he was young . Now broken up I see what he was telling me . But was I supposed to leave in a dynamic where I was always drained no way !!!!
2026-06-24 07:54:22
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donnrockyy
𝓡𝓸𝓬𝓴𝔂 :
So like what if she did all this but than said we aren’t compatible and just ghosted and unadded you off everything but didn’t block me until i reached out..😭
2026-06-25 03:08:17
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joieofvivre
Joie de Vivre :
He did all these things, but in the end I couldn’t stay because he gets scared.
2026-06-24 05:08:24
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puertorican_beautii
Rosemary :
I had a FA n DA they both tried n both saw me in there future.. I did a lot of things for both. They both went to therapy. I just couldn’t stay
2026-06-23 20:27:25
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mindersidhu7
Manny Sidhu :
Mine cheated on me continuously and I end up breaking up.
2026-06-25 21:05:51
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darkf0xx_
DarkF0xx :
He did and still didn't have the capacity to try to heal his attachment and sabotaged. Twice.
2026-06-24 17:08:07
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nikkiharter88
Nikki Harter :
He’s a Scorpio. He said, “I adore you” today… yup, he’s got it bad 😂 probably won’t hear from him for 3 or so weeks
2026-06-27 01:30:44
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princesspanfried
Princess pan fried :
He did all those and then ghosted they don’t know how or what love is
2026-06-24 19:10:39
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claudiagf78
Claudia :
It’s all temporary
2026-06-23 19:56:17
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bugsmom27
Amy Powell :
He told me he loved me and he said it first wanted me to move in and now I’m blocked and haven’t heard from him in two weeks
2026-06-23 22:16:20
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rayleneaugustines
rayleneaugustines :
If a person is doing these things, they aren’t an avoidant
2026-06-23 15:37:24
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ashalone1977
Ashley3459 :
Ya 5 years then these last few months there’s no more we, and no more plans, like I was a chore plus some other shitty behavior, mixed in with some moments of big feelings. I got fed up and broke it off. I’m really sad, and I know he is too.
2026-06-24 04:52:38
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mariam191o
mariam191o :
Ooo mama I like u scarffff
2026-06-27 03:33:28
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ajalaurenmua
Aja Lauren 💞🪬✨🌞 :
They will slow subtly make small changes to show up for you
2026-06-24 02:58:56
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bigsarge062
BigSarge :
She does these when we’re in person but not texting. I don’t hold too much on texting though. I care about the personal interactions. It’s after we have a personal encounter and we have a great time and she lays in my arms then just emotionally disappears for god knows how long.
2026-06-23 20:55:47
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jh16054
Xx.j.h.Xx :
Miss thank you for all this ❤️
2026-06-25 21:33:11
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lierin.lisbeth
lierin.lisbeth :
I’ve become an avoidant partner 😭 im trying to be better but im scared to let anyone in
2026-06-26 00:46:21
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xarahnee
Nee :
I feel bad because he did his best to make me feel secure but here I am mad at him just because of small things and now he left me "seen" my apology. We haven't talked for a week now
2026-06-25 19:56:01
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kate1300djm
Um yusef :
He does all
2026-06-23 13:33:17
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deep.sky.chaser
deep.sky.chaser :
I love you, it’ll always be you, anyone else would be settling…next morning blocks me and deletes all social media.
2026-06-25 19:25:22
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gamyen5
gamyen5 :
Yes yes yes and yes
2026-06-25 17:24:34
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