@loveletters_bylori: Avoidants don’t always love the way you love. Pay attention to the signs, but don’t ignore your own needs either. Love matters. Consistency matters too. And if your needs are constantly going unmet, you’re allowed to choose yourself. What’s one sign you’ve noticed? #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachmenttheory #relationshipadvice #datingandrelationships #coachlori
"Hi Coach, I've been learning a lot from your content. I came across the idea that if an avoidant partner complies with our requests or does what we ask, it’s a strong indicator that they genuinely love us. In your experience, is this compliance a definitive sign of affection, or could it be driven by something else, like fear of conflict? I'd appreciate your perspective on this. Thanks!"
2026-06-26 09:19:41
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Ssouz_yyy✩ :
The avoidant i am with, i told him thousand times “don’t leave my messages on delivered i feel ignored” and still he’s doing it again and again. Should i quit him! Cuz im really tired of this i need opinions y’all.
2026-06-27 09:33:44
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shookbyshaky :
Started off with we then I start noticing I a lot
2026-06-23 17:48:58
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Josie Israel :
He told me a lot of things about his childhood and his mother and how he was grounded a lot when he was young . Now broken up I see what he was telling me . But was I supposed to leave in a dynamic where I was always drained no way !!!!
2026-06-24 07:54:22
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𝓡𝓸𝓬𝓴𝔂 :
So like what if she did all this but than said we aren’t compatible and just ghosted and unadded you off everything but didn’t block me until i reached out..😭
2026-06-25 03:08:17
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Joie de Vivre :
He did all these things, but in the end I couldn’t stay because he gets scared.
2026-06-24 05:08:24
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Rosemary :
I had a FA n DA they both tried n both saw me in there future.. I did a lot of things for both. They both went to therapy. I just couldn’t stay
2026-06-23 20:27:25
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Manny Sidhu :
Mine cheated on me continuously and I end up breaking up.
2026-06-25 21:05:51
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DarkF0xx :
He did and still didn't have the capacity to try to heal his attachment and sabotaged. Twice.
2026-06-24 17:08:07
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Nikki Harter :
He’s a Scorpio. He said, “I adore you” today… yup, he’s got it bad 😂 probably won’t hear from him for 3 or so weeks
2026-06-27 01:30:44
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Princess pan fried :
He did all those and then ghosted they don’t know how or what love is
2026-06-24 19:10:39
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Claudia :
It’s all temporary
2026-06-23 19:56:17
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Amy Powell :
He told me he loved me and he said it first wanted me to move in and now I’m blocked and haven’t heard from him in two weeks
2026-06-23 22:16:20
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rayleneaugustines :
If a person is doing these things, they aren’t an avoidant
2026-06-23 15:37:24
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Ashley3459 :
Ya 5 years then these last few months there’s no more we, and no more plans, like I was a chore plus some other shitty behavior, mixed in with some moments of big feelings. I got fed up and broke it off. I’m really sad, and I know he is too.
2026-06-24 04:52:38
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mariam191o :
Ooo mama I like u scarffff
2026-06-27 03:33:28
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Aja Lauren 💞🪬✨🌞 :
They will slow subtly make small changes to show up for you
2026-06-24 02:58:56
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BigSarge :
She does these when we’re in person but not texting. I don’t hold too much on texting though. I care about the personal interactions. It’s after we have a personal encounter and we have a great time and she lays in my arms then just emotionally disappears for god knows how long.
2026-06-23 20:55:47
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Xx.j.h.Xx :
Miss thank you for all this ❤️
2026-06-25 21:33:11
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lierin.lisbeth :
I’ve become an avoidant partner 😭 im trying to be better but im scared to let anyone in
2026-06-26 00:46:21
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Nee :
I feel bad because he did his best to make me feel secure but here I am mad at him just because of small things and now he left me "seen" my apology. We haven't talked for a week now
2026-06-25 19:56:01
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Um yusef :
He does all
2026-06-23 13:33:17
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deep.sky.chaser :
I love you, it’ll always be you, anyone else would be settling…next morning blocks me and deletes all social media.
2026-06-25 19:25:22
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gamyen5 :
Yes yes yes and yes
2026-06-25 17:24:34
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