I think you just summed up the difference between the patriarchy (taking) and a matriarchy (giving - but in a healthy way where all are lifted up).
2026-06-24 11:57:24
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Seraphina.O 🇨🇦 :
It's because they look at us and literally see something for their enjoyment. We're not people to them.
2026-08-05 11:16:52
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Ethiopia&theWorldProtectGIRLS! :
I was dancing with friends at a club one night when a man started to dance behind me. He grabbed my hips and began to grind against my butt with a hard on. I twisted away from him, but he kept coming back no matter where I was on the dance floor. He never even spoke a single word to me, but over the course if the night, he pressed his hard on against me 6 times. Men suck 😢
2026-06-28 00:09:01
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MaryMoon :
You are an amazing story teller
2026-06-26 13:43:20
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🫧🫧🫧 :
I understand your freeze response so much. There’s so many times I can think of when I’ve just been stuck despite not wanting something to happen.
2026-06-26 06:54:22
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PTMamaLAN :
And those men stole your joy that night. In addition to everything else.
2026-06-28 19:03:09
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Lisa Sonni :
Without a second thought. I know this.
2026-06-23 17:00:22
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brooke :
wow. can you write a book or something because you captured it exactly
2026-06-25 18:04:27
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JhaelannaBanana :
We see you, we hear you, we are you 🫂🩷 I am so sorry
2026-06-25 04:42:23
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loudly.leo :
My heart goes to anyone who carries a story like this 🤍
2026-06-23 13:53:17
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Kate Osman :
Oh my goodness. You just put into words what I have felt since growing up. Thanks for sharing
2026-06-26 05:06:24
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selinacaren177 :
The most powerful part of this story is how you were really feeling yourself at the start. Not because of the approval of others but because of how good you FELT. But that was all ruined by men overstepping. Dressing hot has never been about getting the attention of men, it's just because we like it!
2026-07-17 02:25:49
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Tik Toker :
I’m so sorry this happened to you, sending so so much love 💖 Such true words! xxx
2026-06-26 01:04:46
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yellowmoon :
Amen sister. I too wonder what my life would’ve or could’ve been. 💕
2026-06-25 13:12:19
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darksunrisewoman :
Men need an awakening, a deep one
2026-07-20 01:32:03
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NessyNaiad 🇨🇦 :
I hate how this kind of male behaviour can get called out in a general way, but I've had it justified by people in my life when it's happened to me. A blessing of getting older is that I'm no longer preyed upon, though I still need to be vigilant.
2026-07-20 05:07:55
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jennifermoss533 :
The first time I went out in the city Sydney with friends (and no parents) at 12 an older boy just walked up and put his hand on my breast. Nowhere ever felt safe again.
2026-08-07 06:04:11
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Jen Winchester :
my youth
2026-07-30 13:28:36
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Goddess Dezi :
"all the eyes turned hungry and i felt like prey" 😭😭
2026-08-09 13:20:07
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Karl :
Disgusting!! I’m so sorry he did that to you.
2026-08-04 03:59:39
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gregarious :
I’m so sorry. Thank you for your vulnerability & courage to share.
2026-07-19 04:17:33
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Jen :
I wonder too . I am sorry this happened to you and all the other women who have experienced negative attention and experiences
2026-08-02 20:44:27
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cyn**666** :
I felt this to my core and cried
2026-07-24 17:31:01
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mina :
this resonated with me...from my uncles 4 year sa from age 8 to my 30 yrs husbands repeated intimate betrayal from year 3 marriage...we as women constantly have things that impact our very souls...
2026-07-23 04:59:12
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CallmeKelsey :
I love us.
2026-06-26 17:15:38
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