Yep! I did this! 6 years later 😭 I wish I left after the first sign of disrespect
2026-06-23 20:30:54
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Otto :
Tbh, this is true for every relationship at every age. It’s the essence of the sunken cost fallacy. It’s actually true for everything in life, just because you have committed yourself to something, does not in any way mean you have to continue just because you’ve put a lot of effort in it. Learning when to wrap it up is one of the hardest yet most useful skills you will ever learn.
2026-06-24 07:46:55
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Viv :
Yes, don’t waste your time and your young years
2026-06-26 00:47:20
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Fia 🍉🍉🍉 :
Once I know the mistreatment becomes a pattern, the disrespect is louder, the energy isn't returned, I leave. Detachment and discernment. Always.
2026-06-23 15:09:17
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lucky ⋆˚꩜。☘︎ 🐞 :
hey so did you read my diary
2026-06-24 05:38:15
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ri 💌 :
I always say this. No kids, no house, no ring, byee!!!
2026-06-23 23:44:10
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isabellgers :
Girl every video feels like you’re making it for me😭 I ended a four year relationship earlier this year after not being happy for a whole year and putting in so much work for nothing 🫠
2026-06-24 05:56:46
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alexandra :
That's exactly what I did! I was with a man from the time I was 18 until we broke up when I was 21 (I'm 22 now), and oh my god... the amount of free labor I was doing without ever receiving appreciation for it is what finally made me let go. 😭
Guys, if you don't feel appreciated, loved, and SEEN, just leave. You're so young and have so many things ahead of you... don't lose yourself! ☀️🌻
2026-06-23 14:42:05
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Koi :
welp.. i just left a 10 year relationship 2 months ago. im 28 aswell. 2 kids, youngest is 2 months... realised in the hospital i couldnt do all the work alone anymore.
2026-06-23 22:35:10
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Zara :
When i ask myself why do i do this i dont even have an answer
2026-06-23 18:46:22
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Julitschka :
Needed to hear this, actually where were you like a year ago haha
2026-06-23 16:53:19
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Sav :
21 and single after a 6 yr relationship. PLEASE everyone take this advice!!
2026-06-24 09:26:22
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Ireneee :
my partner and I broke up and I have been preparing myself mentally to accept that I might have to end building my life alone because I have found that kind of connection in rare situations. so maybe they find connection hard (idk just a hypothesis)
2026-06-23 15:36:02
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sideeeeye :
Also breaking up is a very real option if you have children. You are eventually just making it more miserable by not breaking up and a break up can also be good for the children
2026-06-23 16:27:56
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TwoAceFoldEm :
Wish I saw this 20 years ago 😂.
2026-06-23 20:39:50
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letstalkalina :
I am 32 and I confirmes it's true
2026-06-23 19:49:47
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.user3.2312 :
Your videos saving my mental health every time I see them on my fyp 😭💓
2026-06-23 14:42:14
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nameless :
i agree!! buuuuut i think it’s different if it’s like ur first real relationship i think you should stay a bit and learn how to communicate and how to fight healthily because how should you know? but if it don’t work then bye bye
2026-06-23 16:19:01
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Hecate :
Yess sooo true!!
2026-06-23 16:07:26
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m ☆〜(ゝ。∂) :
i miss bro he's a good person
2026-06-23 15:01:24
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rebma95 :
But how do you know you will not just repeat the same patterns with the next person?
2026-06-25 13:45:39
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brianna :
i’m 22 and have been with my partner for almost five years, been telling myself this a lot lately. (wish me luck)
2026-06-23 22:52:14
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Sage Sensenig :
I SO BADLY wish I would have had someone who told me this😭
2026-06-25 01:17:32
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fart.particle :
What if I am married at 25 tho😩
2026-06-23 20:35:29
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gloria :
i’m 20 and had my first breakup with someone i dated for 4 years, it’s been really hard and i can’t see myself falling in love w someone else.. ur advice makes it seem possible tho
2026-06-23 21:20:38
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