nica𓆩♡𓆪 :
18yrs akong single, inshort nbsb, mahilig akong manood ng kdrama and magbasa sa wattpad. what's my point here? my point is sa hobby kong yun pinagaaralan ko din kung pano pumasok sa isang relasyon, from their pov's, natutunan ko kung ano yung dapat at hindi ko dapat gawin. Pagpasok ko sa rs after ng 18 ko which is my first rs, binigay ko lahat ng love na kay kong ibigay, and gaya ng nababasa at napapanood ko, it's like a fairytale pala talaga mainlove....... sa una. Yes, sa una, dun lahat ng effort ibibigay sayo, yung love na akala mo 'di mawawala, ipaparamdam sayo. But, as years goes by, unti unti nagkakalamat, konting away ipagtutulakan ka na palayo, yung dating maeffort biglang naging nonchalant, and dun mo na maqquestion if they still love you. Our rs ended and it was almost 2 years of "survival".
Now, this pov is from me/ from the person na "nang-iwan" for some reasons.
Why sa tagal tagal ng relasyon piniling tapusin? It's because they are not willing to fight with you. Yung contentment nawala na. They changed. Yung taong minahal mo wala na kasi hindi na sila yun. If there's a problem (except cheating) pede pa yan maayos, if both of you are willing to fight and grow together. But if it's not, then sa hiwalayan nga ang tuloy nyan. They should not expect someone to stay if they can't even understand how they hurt you. We don't leave because we stopped loving them, we left because they made us feel alone while being with them. Kaya pa sana pero mahirap lumaban mag-isa.
2026-06-24 12:59:26