@morgaanfoley: Alexathymia really is a problem🤦‍♀️ I gotta bring up conversations from 2 weeks back because I finally processed it #actuallyautistic

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moonlight._.1609
✨🌙Moon🌙✨ :
So real, I hate loud noises and weird textures but I love loud music and want to touch new things (sensory seeking) 😭😭
2026-06-23 16:08:39
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sarahneedsaplan
Sarah Burkett :
yes! and then when they ask "when?" I'm like I don't know. because I forgot why I got upset while explaining
2026-06-24 01:58:19
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creativejason
CreativeJason :
Alexithymia sucks. My alexithymia comes from a childhood coping mechanism for the many times I was implicitly taught that my feelings weren't important.
2026-06-25 16:34:16
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adansgreenapple
🍏 🕯️ :
I "resolved" this by saying: When you realize that something I do bothers you, tell me. I'll tell you when I realize that something you do bothers or hurts me... I always end by clarifying that it is indeed a "when" situation and not an "if" situation.
2026-06-23 20:53:06
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kendolllly
KennyKen :
the not realizing my feelings until much later is so real
2026-06-23 17:38:25
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mattetok
░m░a░t░t░e • Friend :
here's a better way. instead of 'in the moment'. set the expectation to the right milestone: when you have the thought/feeling
2026-06-25 13:10:42
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jessicawalker1800
jessica walker :
I didn't know there was a name for that; I have trouble processing my emotions in the moment too and I'm just.... thank you 😭
2026-06-23 20:51:12
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tia57912
tia57912 :
But if you think about it, you’re both going to tell the other person as soon as you know and that’s the best that everybody can do so if somebody can’t do something soon enough, they’ll do it as soon as they can, and so if we can’t do it until later, then we will still do it as soon as we know. If they can process and figure something out right away and they need to tell us right away if they do know right away.
2026-06-23 17:22:35
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yumiriddle
YumiRiddle :
Oh I feel it, I had that convo with a friend where I thought it's fine but suddenly I went "Wait a second I'm actually a bit confused by this thing" But I can't just ask her suddenly to explain what she meant so I will just jump around it till the topic potentially comes back
2026-06-24 09:40:24
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wkk.02
wkk :
it's not a contradiction: you're not asking for feedback on the moment per say, you're asking for feedback as soon as it is known that something caused an issue. If it takes longer for the issue to manifest itself you can still communicate about it as soon as it becomes known :)
2026-06-24 23:08:38
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ajlee227
SOD1514 :
I’m am the exact same way
2026-06-23 23:40:10
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misa.cosp
Misu :
I honestly hate it, because I feel so awkward trying to go back to a conversation I had with someone a week or more ago. But I just don't know how to proces it or react to it on the spot. And when I finally realize "yeah that was hurtful, I should address that" I don't know how to start that conversation in a way that isn't werid. But at the same time the longer I don't adrese it, the more it eats me from the inside ugh
2026-06-23 18:38:39
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vsqrvcal
vsqx :
tell me if i do something wrong becayse i'd rather know than you be uncomfortable but if you do tell me i'm gonna burst into tears right then and there. Sorry don't know why.
2026-06-23 16:12:37
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promarkerartist
Promakerartz :
I am diagnosed withADHD and Autism even if I have it its confusing because even when I am reading about it it doesn’t sound like something that can exist in the same person. But I have been described as being a contradiction and hard too understand and well yes. I also don’t know how its possible too be both super adventure seeking and get bored really fast at the same time as having a hard time with change and uncertainty etc. I just never know what I really want. I love trying new food but have a hard time actually trying new food? Like why? How?
2026-06-23 18:21:40
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starjellyfish6
starjellyfish :
yeah I have to check if I'm valid first 😅
2026-06-23 16:19:29
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redaidred1
Redaid :
Your necklace 😍
2026-06-25 10:30:14
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ellaxox80
Ella💓💚 :
It’s shuch an struggle
2026-06-25 09:43:49
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finding.kelsey
Kelsey :
I just tried to interpret this in a reel and failed. you took the words right out of my mouth. I couldn't be more accurate
2026-06-25 05:57:10
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jademeeps
J189 :
Omg I sometimes don’t realise for weeks that someone has hurt my feelings lol 😂
2026-06-23 21:18:21
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minina.cecilia
Minina :
I love your cladagh necklace <3
2026-06-23 18:24:16
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fizzi.p0p
𝑽𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒉𝒐𝒆. :
Or if I do confront first ( because I’m always told to be transparent - tbh I don’t know what that actually means, but I’ve tracked it down to straight up honest ) about something bothering me, I’m either guilted, gaslit, or its flipped and I’m the bad guy. So I don’t bring it up if I feel off, because I’ve been told and through experience that everything I’m feeling is wrong in some way. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO THEN?! Never talk?! 😩😭
2026-06-23 16:18:51
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kbster9
KSter9 :
Great insight there! I had not heard the term before. But I absolutely experience this, particularly if it’s a difficult social encounter. Worse, when I do realize it, my mind then opens the file cabinet to a wide range of similar past experiences which then play on a loop in my mind. But I will say I react more strongly in the moment when the event reminds me of something in the past even if I don’t fully understand why I’m reacting so strongly at the time.
2026-06-25 02:34:44
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isekaimepls
IsekaiMePls🌎 :
thank you for posting
2026-06-25 02:43:14
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heyitsnicky444
Nicole 🔮🧘‍♀️💗 :
This is such a huge struggle 😭😭😭😭 I'm working on it 😩
2026-06-25 15:02:34
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