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kevin_ranson
Kevin :
So basically shrink yourself to their needs alone and ignore all of you’re own needs. Did 8 years of that. Never ever again. That are pure evil
2026-07-22 18:27:49
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hainbords
🪷 :
it’s draining.
2026-06-23 20:06:29
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danbr0wn
Daniel Brown :
Avoidant’s are the absolute worst
2026-07-22 17:57:18
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ihaveacrushonyousaira
ihaveacrushonyousaira :
Don’t be in a relationship if you expect your partner to do 90% of the your “healing”
2026-08-13 15:02:38
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orlackhartmann
Orla Ck Hartmann :
What about what we need?
2026-07-21 14:51:02
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11dris
Idris :
Or just find a mature adult
2026-08-25 10:39:19
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cami.hoshi_x
~Camila~ :
And then when you start to become like them (so avoidant to fully make them understand what they make you feel) they start being like no you’re be not supposed to be like that or they get angry because you’re turning into something that THEY DO NOT LIKE. but when it’s them you’re simply supposed to be okay with it… And when they hurt you, you cannot do anything to them because they make you feel like you ARE the horrible person.. it’s never worth it.
2026-08-13 15:03:21
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amyclanger86
amy86 rainbow 🌈 :
and what about us
2026-07-07 11:36:57
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holyguacomole11
Holy guacomole :
Oh hell no, you need to push him away forever
2026-08-12 12:21:25
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lisonsaintlger
Lison Saint-Léger :
always taking care of them while we’re losing our minds
2026-08-19 13:04:35
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dmccallum03
Duncan McCallum :
Just look for sm1 who wants you, and adapts to you. None of this 2026 avoidant my feelings are important BS, empathy and care for another should and always will outweigh your own feelings. You’ll find sm1 who cares for u the way u care for others and the way u deserve, just be patient 🙏🏻
2026-08-15 02:22:31
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alexandra.zxy
Alexandra Zxy :
just sent his ass to a therapist girl
2026-07-21 13:24:31
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july._tx
𝖩𝗎𝗅𝗒 ۶ৎ ⊹ ࣪ ˖ :
and what bout us
2026-07-21 15:41:07
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april.may822
april :
it's not worth it
2026-07-12 18:13:13
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ncdracco
pwvdracco :
Yea no
2026-08-01 07:01:12
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tibbster69
K-Wango :
It’s tough, I have highs and lows as I have an anxious attachment. But giving 100% as I always do, just not sure they see it from my side, but I’m doing my best to see it from there’s. It’s a steep learning curve that I hope is worth it!
2026-07-18 08:47:38
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extension420_
ext420 :
Step 1 leave
2026-07-24 04:29:38
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mrhubzie
Hubzie :
Don’t. Leave.
2026-07-21 11:50:32
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333nibble
Britt :
I’m always upfront about my need to have space and time for myself and that’s on boundaries. I’ve been both I just feel like it’s draining for both sides. Can’t expect someone to push themselves to please your needs and not do the same for them though, you have to be willing or just end the relationship before it starts. Save your energy for someone that matches or you’re gonna be suffering trust me
2026-08-13 15:04:20
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js1234125
js1234125 :
Asking tiny questions is a great way to antagonise someone whose central nervous system is in overdrive after a long day.
2026-08-26 15:26:45
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rdi7189
Rafiki :
gore on my fyp
2026-08-26 12:18:21
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roseyrose_699
roseyrose_699 :
Lied with the first one 🫩
2026-08-14 06:18:43
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honey_snowcone
Snowcone :
That’s too much…. Crazy
2026-08-14 05:40:58
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swoozie.17
Swoozie.17 :
Sounds like a lot of work 🙂‍↔️
2026-08-14 04:01:58
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