@coach.ryan0: You weren’t “too needy.” You were trying to get emotional intimacy from someone whose nervous system was built to avoid it. The tragedy is that many people spend years blaming themselves for needs that were completely normal. #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #relationshipadvice #healing

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blessedbootsandbaits
Blessed, Boots and Baits :
damn I want to send this to hubby
2026-06-25 09:39:07
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paul.askew34
Paul Askew :
Yes that’s exactly how I was left, now in therapy and on antidepressants healing
2026-06-24 05:26:42
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y3234557
Y :
Crumbs almost sound good to me .
2026-06-25 16:46:44
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___n__037
____gh_28 :
Would only listen to me talking for like 10 seconds at a time. Had to constantly ask if she was listening.
2026-06-23 21:31:21
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mikuko7
Flora♋🇲🇫🙏 :
The stress of this relationship triggered a chain reaction in my body. I now have an autoimmune disease.
2026-06-25 13:50:00
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serendipity3618
Serendipity ✨ :
Said I was clingy. I made a name tag HELLO MY NAME IS: CLINGY
2026-06-24 21:34:16
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1971blondieblue
RachRA💜 :
So true😢😢😢
2026-06-29 09:34:49
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gwynnethdavies
Scorpio queen :
yep😳 just like this been there 😏
2026-06-23 20:01:13
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holisticbadassness
Sherra :
this is truth
2026-06-26 02:59:27
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notmadeforthiscold
NotMadeForThisCold. :
I just want to cry man. i feel so used 😌
2026-06-24 16:01:35
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dug_in
dug_in :
NAILED IT
2026-06-24 16:13:55
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flying_z_71
Flying_Z_71 :
Yep. Lived it for past 5 years. It’s been a lot since she left and never felt so low. But I’m really healing and have had space and time to see the truth. I still love her but I couldn’t ever do enough to help her.
2026-06-24 00:55:21
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tonyputzig
Tony Putzig :
I’ve never considered it this way but it’s definitely accurate
2026-06-23 19:09:14
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bubalichous1
Bubalichous :
So right
2026-06-26 00:22:14
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nikkinegron
Nikki N :
For real 💯
2026-06-25 13:21:46
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the_good433
THE GOOD :
so‍oo ma‍ny peo‍ple tal‍king ab‍out th‍at ve‍ra ha‍rt arch‍etype qu‍iz i‍ts cra‍zy, lo‍l. Tr‍ied it mys‍elf a‍nd t‍he res‍ults ha‍ve be‍en overwhe‍lmingly promi‍sing.
2026-06-23 21:32:39
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pegasus_436
Pegasus_436 :
FA is similarly emotionally abusive. It’s more like being ignored and refusal to discuss anything.
2026-06-24 00:05:19
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mayaroxannee
mayaroxanne :
Does your course go over how we can work on ourselves to make sure we never date a dismissive avoidant that’s unwilling to work on themselves?
2026-06-24 00:22:52
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margaretbradley326
margaretbradley326 :
Death by a thousand cuts.
2026-06-25 21:11:12
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jpprayss
Jprays :
I have a lot healing to do…you just described my soon to be ex if not ex already
2026-06-27 09:00:06
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