@shazmeeraqadri: Be our guest and do not overstay your welcome. #selftrust #dil #inlaws #relationshipadvice #selfabandonment

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baby_munah001
M :
I learnt that very early even before getting married. I set my boundaries straight, my husbands family are not my family and his friends are not my friends & vice versa. I don’t go out of my way to make anyone appreciate me and I don’t try to impress anyone. I set my boundaries by not being overly friendly with them.
2026-06-24 10:33:26
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tomwaitsfornoone
I. :
On point! The more you keep your distance the less material there is to fight about. Less friction and it just keeps the whole relationship cute and "demure" lol
2026-06-24 16:14:26
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ilovemesomeana
Ana :
Acted like a guest, still am hated
2026-07-07 17:39:32
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i_will_bake_you_a_pie
🫥 :
Stay single. Avoid the stress.
2026-06-23 22:55:50
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rachinoz5
Rach_0Z🍉 :
I have the healthiest relationship with my in laws. The key? Never speak. Christmas cards only.
2026-06-25 10:40:06
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njmcmdtm
NJ :
I did this and they were mad AF because they wanted me to be more active. Safe to say that I am no contact.
2026-06-24 06:16:43
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carrah___
Sahra 🌹🇨🇲👸🏽 :
If his parents are my parents then I’ll be getting up at 10am cause that’s when i get up in my parents house.🌝
2026-06-25 12:12:12
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afa.khaleel
Afa Khaleel :
My inlaws aren’t assholes tho. They’re awesome whenever I’m at their place. ♥️I happily help with the cooking too.
2026-06-24 08:38:55
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kikilester11
Kimara :
Girl there’s some truth here, but if you have good in laws, treat them well if they treat you well.
2026-06-24 08:44:30
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_nesahnesah
Nesah :
you shouldve posted this 12 yrs ago
2026-06-24 08:34:28
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gracia_899
gracia_899 :
We act like roommates. I do what I want with my own schedule and they do what they want.
2026-06-26 15:47:53
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tseringsworld
T.sering :
please if you are young, take this advise, this is good information. Gave myself way to much for inlaw and take care of you
2026-06-24 11:23:58
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lovee__lee
Love Lee :
I tried not to overstep … his mom said I was lazy
2026-06-25 02:31:34
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grettaqc
grettaqc :
Zero contact is the way for so many of us.. trust me. It’s bliss
2026-06-25 06:08:56
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s.s_246
user2445312906382 :
Wish this could be true . My mil assigns tasks to me with chores the whole day and almost has a heart attack when my husband helps out, there is no such thing like this living with in laws
2026-06-27 10:45:14
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skye6619
Skye :
Hmmm I did this but it was a problem because I ‘wasn’t a good enough wife’ and wasn’t doing enough 🥲 can’t win with in laws 🙃
2026-06-25 22:44:43
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chanchanmylove1
Chanchanmylove :
I can’t stand sister in laws
2026-06-24 21:40:50
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bloop1210
Betty bloop :
I am a guest anywhere that's not my home LOL
2026-06-25 16:03:59
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igora923
igora923 :
Loved it, wise woman 🥰👏
2026-06-24 01:15:59
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sideplankteletuby
sideplankteletuby :
my sister in laws act like I don't exist every time I visited them. ended up not going there anymore.
2026-06-25 15:05:27
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user32937387359174
user32937387359174 :
10000% just be nice and keep your distance. 😂 thats what im doing.
2026-06-25 12:18:18
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therarestdiamond
The Rarest Diamond :
spot on.
2026-06-24 01:40:11
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createdbyyolanda
Yolanda Khumalo :
this year I made a decision I am gonna see them every 6 months.
2026-06-24 15:22:01
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chicken.wing062
Chicken Wing :
I act like a daughter, but I'm a spoiled child so that means I would only help with simple things when asked and not well.
2026-06-24 22:00:29
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jescc1
Jessi CC :
THIS is SOOOOOOOO TRUE! I was always there for 13yrs the moment we couldn’t it turned bad. Wise words I wish I knew a long time ago
2026-06-24 06:04:40
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