@anxiouslyalej: The most expensive thing you’ll ever pay in a relationship is self abandonment. When you betray yourself just to keep a relationship alive, you will slowly disappear because the cost of that relationship is too expensive. How do I know you’re in a healthy relationship that you can afford to be in? You can let them in respect yourself at the same time.. Keywords: dating advice, avoidant attachment, healthy relationships, anxious attachment, dating standards, self respect, emotional availability #re#relationshipso#womensdatingadvicev#avoidantattachmenta#datingadvicer#breakups

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ToyotaRolla90 :
🗣‼️🎯💯
2026-06-24 21:38:10
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sami_cherie
sami_cherie :
Cost me everything.
2026-06-24 05:23:57
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lisa.kaban
Lisa Kaban :
everyone had different characters different work ethics go along is kinda easy recognize you before it's too late
2026-06-26 13:18:18
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esandwich2
Le Sandwich :
So true. 20 years ago I was dating someone who I loved dearly and made me felt so cherished but he had a controlling side. After one of our disagreements, where I was expected to take the brunt of the blame for the argument...the lyrics to Alannis Morisette's song "At that Particular Time" rang so true for me ".....At that particular moment, I knew staying with you meant deserting me..." I knew that I would have to subdue my personality, opinions, and voice just to keep the peace.
2026-06-25 02:44:15
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user713674648
user713674648 :
“A healthy relationship will make you more of who you are, an unhealthy one will make you a empty vessel” Truer words were never spoken 🔥👏🏼✍🏼
2026-06-24 04:47:31
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queenkeyz81
Queen Keyz :
I can't afford any of them. Out of my tax bracket.
2026-06-24 13:56:48
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daniwilliams4360
DaniLGriffith4360 :
Naw!! I can walk away! I did twice! 41 and 56...I'm not afraid to start over- alone.
2026-06-26 01:23:16
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anamariaunscripted
anamariaunscripted :
Spot on!! Sometimes you don’t even realize you’re abandoning yourself while you’re in the relationship.
2026-06-25 16:12:51
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weezy_699
AnnaLyze 🌿 🇨🇦 :
Good grief, that was the best definition of why I stayed that I have never been able to put into words. I wasted so many years 🥺🥺🥺
2026-06-24 03:18:37
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rita_bhdd
Marmoris 🌊 :
This is literally WORDS OF GOLD 💕
2026-06-25 11:31:45
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groove963
groove963 :
I went so low. Ugh!!
2026-06-24 07:46:41
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vamontesparra
Valeria | Navegando los 30 :
I wasn’t ready for this video but I appreciate it.
2026-06-24 12:03:31
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jessicaaa9618
AnotherJessica :
Very well articulated!
2026-06-25 00:05:11
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loreleileigh123
Lorelei Leigh :
It’s a sunk cost fallacy where the person keeps throwing good investment after bad to “recoup” their losses
2026-06-25 00:11:32
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the.southern.domi
Mayi :
it's not worth it. you just loose yourself
2026-06-24 11:54:49
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bloc_baddie
bloc_baddie :
Every time you’re on my screen, I’m the one that feels seen.
2026-06-25 01:27:29
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raadiantaura__
Raadiantaura__ :
It is very true. This is very true and what I learned from my last one is that the more that they do keep trying to change the limit of like what you can with Stan the more they also see that you hold back because you can’t always change the destination, but then wonder why there are so many back stops to what the other person gets because you could only really change and do but so much but then in a bad way still sit there and try to make someone feel like what they don’t do is not good enough
2026-06-24 10:27:37
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detroitwonderwoman
Black Wonder Woman :
this is so true
2026-06-24 04:11:55
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_beauty4ashes613
_beauty4ashes613 :
This is so good.
2026-06-25 20:22:23
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destamehari560
log out :
i wish i could hear this video 4 years ago😞😞😞
2026-06-25 06:00:32
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thesalvi81
TheSalvi81 :
Amazing knowledge!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
2026-06-24 04:49:48
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dalvanalopess
Dalvana Lopes :
Are you still single?
2026-06-26 02:00:28
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.justkatana
Justkatana_ :
Oooh gosh why did you have to say that
2026-06-24 10:03:50
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azbeautybestie
Val (35+ skin hair wellness) :
Dating an amazing man who shows up consistently and I don’t have to self abandon.
2026-06-25 20:19:16
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