The Arsenal :
Just followed the guy thanks QB,such an important topic,85-90% of self unalivements are male,so clearly men feel lost/isolated/embarrassed/feel as if they must reach a certain standard/feel they haven’t made the most of potential/feel they’ve let parents down somehow/feel a lot of pressure when dating and feel they must be on par with their peers.Also we bottle things up a lot,I tend to walk away a lot and not discuss anything that might be bothering me”Don’t want to have negative energy or vibe passed on to others.”I was that guy who was very social and worked most of my life,I was able to drive for 23yrs,I was always meeting up with buddies for a beer,a game of snooker or pool,and I had 8 relatives alive that have now passed since 2023.My uncle(Late dads sisters husband died 2 weeks ago tomorrow),he was heading home from work and took massive heart attack,thankfully his work mate was driving,but he was gone long gone before ambulance arrived. As a man the best person to talk to is your mother,a mum will listen not judge or have knee jerk reaction,she’ll listen and reassure you.Remember there’s no love like a mothers love and your well-being is her top priority-So guys go talk to her if you still have yours,if not go get that counselling I’ve been many many times since I was 19 and I’m 49 in August. I’ll not lie ever,I’ve had a really really bad day today with my mental health,and often there’s nothing on my mind to get me down over the years.I’ve been that bad today all I’ve ate was scrambled eggs on toast this morning.But just got to carry on as tomorrow is a new dawn.Don’t fail yourself let alone your family,you owe it to yourself to at least seek and get that help,and buy yourself time don’t get an idea in your head and go do something silly.Good luck guys,it’s a tough time to be a white straight Christian guy at the moment.But nothing ever stays the same,it’s all change that’s how the world works.Stay strong Bro’s💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻,no one is more or less important in this world than the next person.You are a unique special individual,just like the lady drew attention to this topic.👍⭐️
2026-06-24 21:15:50