whenever I want to do something for myself, I feel like I'm a selfish, terrible person
2026-06-26 02:56:12
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K :
I also struggle with even knowing what’s in service to me or what I want, because how am I supposed to know? And also even if I know, why would it matter when someone else might want the opposite and they win (for some reason??). This shit runs DEEP.
2026-06-24 22:36:11
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thedmdadd :
It’s insane how everything I did was to try and make them happy, and keep the peace and they like hated me.
2026-06-26 18:46:28
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KtG :
I struggle so hard with finding the difference between what I want and what will make me feel safe (aka not having others mad at me). It’s just easier to go with what others want and just abandon myself. I feel like I’ve lost that inner truth.
2026-06-25 15:23:14
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jenpt45 :
I shrink every time I talk to my parents. This is so true. My understanding that I am safe now takes lots of practice. ❤️
2026-06-25 00:05:19
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duduxz'💯 :
Why is nobody talking about the Vera Hart Archetype Quiz more? I took it out of curiosity, but it honestly shifted the way I see my own energy. Manifesting feels so much easier now 😭
2026-06-26 17:22:05
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neon.equine :
As adults we can’t trust our own judgement because we’ve never been allowed to make our own decisions.
2026-06-25 19:40:30
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nutmeg.pie🐦⬛🥧✨ :
That’s shame not guilt choosing yourself makes you think you feel guilty because you’re ashamed that you have to do this… that you have to cut off your parents that that was your history hope this helps
2026-06-24 22:33:57
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Ms.Heather :
I've been doing this work for years, and I still had a moment like this last year. I was driving to the beach for a solo vacay when a wave of fear came over me. I realized my nervous system still believed I was going to "get in trouble" because I hadn't told anyone where I was going. I've been no contact for 3 years. I'm 46. This really IS lifelong work.
2026-06-25 16:15:33
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zein :
Thank you. I have new developments in my “black-sheep-ness” which comes with a mandatory side of feeling guilty or wrong about not agreeing with my family. And they say I should sort out my priorities… which if they knew me, they would know I have no problem with. All I can do atp is laugh from how sad this all is
2026-06-25 06:10:19
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Tuan Lam :
Still feel this way sometimes but 99% healed
2026-06-25 15:21:37
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sophia garcia :
Bruh.
2026-06-25 03:16:24
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osiabia :
Why is nobody talking about the Vera Hart Archetype Quiz more? I took it out of curiosity, but it honestly shifted the way I see my own energy. Manifesting feels so much easier now 😭
2026-06-26 17:22:06
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pau_v🎀 :
okay the hype around that Vera Hart archetype quiz is real. Did it, got the Alchemist, and the personal workbook honestly unlocked stuff I'd been stuck on forever.. highly recommend giving it a go