@helena.earlss: choosing ourselves makes us feel guilty #traumahealing #cptsdrecovery #emotionallyimmatureparents

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jessly.nyc
Jess :
whenever I want to do something for myself, I feel like I'm a selfish, terrible person
2026-06-26 02:56:12
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wayyyytooloud
K :
I also struggle with even knowing what’s in service to me or what I want, because how am I supposed to know? And also even if I know, why would it matter when someone else might want the opposite and they win (for some reason??). This shit runs DEEP.
2026-06-24 22:36:11
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thedmdadd
thedmdadd :
It’s insane how everything I did was to try and make them happy, and keep the peace and they like hated me.
2026-06-26 18:46:28
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kglovesduck
KtG :
I struggle so hard with finding the difference between what I want and what will make me feel safe (aka not having others mad at me). It’s just easier to go with what others want and just abandon myself. I feel like I’ve lost that inner truth.
2026-06-25 15:23:14
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jenpt45
jenpt45 :
I shrink every time I talk to my parents. This is so true. My understanding that I am safe now takes lots of practice. ❤️
2026-06-25 00:05:19
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martin_s295
duduxz'💯 :
W‍hy is nob‍ody tal‍king ab‍out t‍he Ve‍ra Ha‍rt Arch‍etype Qu‍iz mo‍re? I to‍ok it o‍ut of curio‍sity, b‍ut it hone‍stly shi‍fted t‍he w‍ay I s‍ee my o‍wn ene‍rgy. Manif‍esting fe‍els so mu‍ch eas‍ier n‍ow 😭
2026-06-26 17:22:05
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neon.equine
neon.equine :
As adults we can’t trust our own judgement because we’ve never been allowed to make our own decisions.
2026-06-25 19:40:30
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ephemeral.rolodex.soup
nutmeg.pie🐦‍⬛🥧✨ :
That’s shame not guilt choosing yourself makes you think you feel guilty because you’re ashamed that you have to do this… that you have to cut off your parents that that was your history hope this helps
2026-06-24 22:33:57
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itsmsheather
Ms.Heather :
I've been doing this work for years, and I still had a moment like this last year. I was driving to the beach for a solo vacay when a wave of fear came over me. I realized my nervous system still believed I was going to "get in trouble" because I hadn't told anyone where I was going. I've been no contact for 3 years. I'm 46. This really IS lifelong work.
2026-06-25 16:15:33
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skapisirkruts
zein :
Thank you. I have new developments in my “black-sheep-ness” which comes with a mandatory side of feeling guilty or wrong about not agreeing with my family. And they say I should sort out my priorities… which if they knew me, they would know I have no problem with. All I can do atp is laugh from how sad this all is
2026-06-25 06:10:19
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alfarovan
Tuan Lam :
Still feel this way sometimes but 99% healed
2026-06-25 15:21:37
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songsxsophia
sophia garcia :
Bruh.
2026-06-25 03:16:24
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osiabia
osiabia :
W‍hy is nob‍ody tal‍king ab‍out t‍he Ve‍ra Ha‍rt Arch‍etype Qu‍iz mo‍re? I to‍ok it o‍ut of curio‍sity, b‍ut it hone‍stly shi‍fted t‍he w‍ay I s‍ee my o‍wn ene‍rgy. Manif‍esting fe‍els so mu‍ch eas‍ier n‍ow 😭
2026-06-26 17:22:06
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paula_v_torres
pau_v🎀 :
ok‍ay t‍he hy‍pe aro‍und th‍at Ve‍ra Ha‍rt arch‍etype qu‍iz is re‍al. D‍id i‍t, g‍ot t‍he Alche‍mist, a‍nd t‍he pers‍onal work‍book hone‍stly unlo‍cked st‍uff I‍'d be‍en st‍uck on fore‍ver.. hig‍hly reco‍mmend giv‍ing it a go
2026-06-26 17:22:05
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555__sara__
555__sara__ :
so‍oo ma‍ny peo‍ple tal‍king ab‍out th‍at Ve‍ra Ha‍rt arch‍etype qu‍iz i‍ts cra‍zy, lo‍l. Tr‍ied it mys‍elf a‍nd t‍he res‍ults ha‍ve be‍en overwhe‍lmingly promi‍sing.
2026-06-26 17:22:05
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kirschlilablau
kirschblau :
Juuuuuuuuup
2026-06-26 15:56:38
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aqmb_2011
️aqmb_2011 :
so‍oo ma‍ny peo‍ple tal‍king ab‍out th‍at Ve‍ra Ha‍rt arch‍etype qu‍iz i‍ts cra‍zy, lo‍l. Tr‍ied it mys‍elf a‍nd t‍he res‍ults ha‍ve be‍en overwhe‍lmingly promi‍sing.
2026-06-26 17:22:06
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ryanwhitaker3
ryanwhitaker3 :
I was yelled at and berated for not letting an organized crime ring steal from me. Relate to this one 1,000,000%.
2026-06-25 06:03:53
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3v_alchemy
Vanessa 🦋 3V :
@Erin 💗
2026-06-26 03:22:10
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misterpeeps
Peeps :
💯💯💯
2026-06-24 20:33:40
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