@coachmontessori: In Montessori, we don’t change the plan because of a tantrum. If it’s time to leave the beach, it’s time to leave the beach. A tantrum doesn’t change that. Many adults make the mistake of stopping, negotiating, delaying, or giving one more chance in the hope that the tantrum will stop. But all that teaches the child is that tantrums are effective. A tantrum is a sign that a child is struggling with a situation. It is not a reason to change the boundary. So we continue. Calmly. Respectfully. Confidently. We leave the beach. We get in the car. And once the child is safe, we can help them regulate those big emotions. Because supporting emotions doesn’t mean changing every decision because of them. Children need to learn two things: Their feelings are welcome. And the boundary still exists. 💛 #montessori #toddlertantrums #respectfulparenting #parentingtips #childdevelopment
what if he says i don't want to go home and makes a drama?
2026-06-25 07:21:51
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Dudi2020 :
I’m a Montessori teacher…. Many things u say are right … but when are u working ?? I see u travel a lot 😅
2026-06-25 09:53:00
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The Painting Osteopa :
Where are your kids darling 🥰
2026-06-24 14:23:48
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Kk :
I love this approach!
2026-06-24 20:15:31
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CASSONDRA :
I just say ok bye! And walk away lol
2026-06-24 18:10:50
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Candice :
My toddler is at a Montessori school. Love it. The kids are independent. However I'm not always a Montessori mom...you don't want to go home I walk ahead and you can pick yourself up and run after me 😂
2026-06-24 18:51:43
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Thefakeone :
Montessori worked so well with one- the other one does not give a damn 😩
2026-06-24 19:14:05
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AndieL :
I love this so much. There is no room for a power struggle or negotiation 👏👏👏👏👏
2026-06-24 13:58:59
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diddillyfiddily :
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha ... ok
2026-06-24 17:00:48
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dimdim321 :
I love your tips but to be honest they're not exclusive to Montessori... A lot of what you post are very general communication and behavior strategies known to many seasoned educators and parents (like me 😁). It feels like modern Montessori is always boasting a "higher than thou" attitude but it's really not all that special.
2026-06-24 22:03:31
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aussiemum :
so what do you do if they don't leave
2026-06-25 01:23:36
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hk421 :
en Montessori solo crisis hijos de ricos y lo estáis haciendo sin ponerles límites
2026-06-25 17:48:38
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