u just really don’t like that person, so why entertain them?
2026-06-25 07:23:44
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I'm an anxious and I understand how avoidant feels when an anxious open up to them. they avoid the conflict because they feel pressure. but as an anxious, is our feelings valid? do you understand how we feel when you avoid and walk away? do you know how much we ask our self what happen or what did we do to be avoided. guys, no hates hah, never take it as a personal attack. nagoopen kami cuz we just want to be understood and validated. gusto namin ayusin at itama lahat ng pagkakamali. communication is the key. kung mapapag-usapan naman in a right way ng hindi parehas masasaktan, bakit kailangan pang iwasan at iparamdam na our feelings is not valid? if you're an avoidant and you don't know how an anxious feel when you walk away, I hope this helps you to understand it.
2026-06-26 08:01:59
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kath :
I been avoidant for 2 years now but I forgot to close the good damn window 😭
2026-06-25 16:10:32
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daisy :
that's why, nag papapansin lang ako sa mga wala akong chance
2026-06-26 02:24:56
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For avoidant people: If you're not ready for a relationship, then don't entertain someone. Heal yourself first before entering someone's life.
2026-08-20 17:17:28
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me na nandito na naman sa secret account
2026-06-25 07:51:39
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J :
I fell in love with a girl who has an avoidant attachment, hoping that I could help her change and ayun nabago ko nga siya at ok naman ang lahat, so ngayon ay may confidence na siya at hindi na siya avoidant sa bagong minamahal niya.
2026-06-27 12:44:47
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Fa.diaaaa :
gue suka lagu ini, malah karna pernah pacaran sama orang Avoidanttt.
"You wanted space. I gave you forever"
2026-06-26 08:21:51
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rhaine :
anthem ng mga may avoidant issue
2026-08-18 02:01:16
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@tinymoow :
I'm just protecting my heart bro
2026-06-29 14:35:08
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Keysieee :
I understand you:))
2026-06-25 04:34:18
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Sophia_love_ :
It’s even worse being attached to an avoidant.
2026-09-08 22:11:16
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a :
naiintindihan ko'to, but let's not invalidate someone na gusto lang naman mahalin kayo genuinely🤷
2026-06-25 13:01:23
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Yziera :
naintindihan namin kayo, pero pano naman kaming ginawa ding avoidant? when all i want is to love her genuinely. to keep her forever
2026-06-26 05:53:51
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kylaa? :
gtau emg gw redflag ap gmn, gw suka, gmpng ilfeel, avoidant pula
2026-07-01 08:44:27
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. :
Hanya orang yang suka menghindari konflik yang akan memahami ini.
2026-06-26 15:13:37
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Malborong puti :
I'm not avoidant pero naiintindihan ko
2026-06-25 05:02:45
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𝄞ᏟᏞᎪᏆᎡᎬ 𝚌𝚊𝚜𝚜𝚎𝚢 ♬✟ :
as an anxious, I don't even know what to say bcz my avoidant is making me crazy
2026-06-26 11:56:53
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𝓙𝓮𝓷𝓪 ؛༊ :
ik I'm just protecting my soul, but protecting it keeps hurting someone else's feelings.
2026-08-12 12:30:02
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tata :
“give me space”
2026-06-26 23:08:57
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Hindi masamang maging avoidant, pero hindi ibig sabihin nun walang nasasaktan. If you need space, say it clearly. Don’t just disappear and leave people guessing. Clarity is better than silence.
Have you ever thought about what the other person feels when you suddenly go quiet?
Did you ever consider kung gaano katagal silang nag-o-overthink just to understand what went wrong?
And if you were in their place, wouldn’t you also want a simple answer instead of silence?
do you realize how your silence can make someone question their worth?
have you ever thought na baka yung katahimikan mo, sila yung nahihirapan mag-accept?
And how many good connections have you lost just because you chose to disappear instead of explain?
2026-06-26 13:14:41
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gemini :
I'm just protecting my soul
2026-06-30 04:44:40
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